Since she is no longer your counselor I would would call her and spend time with her. That was a school issue and you can do what you want. If she means that much to you don't let her go. Tell her. Unfortunately that is a policy, I had a teacher that was very affectionate to her students and the school board told her she had to stop. It changed her. I was 16 when I met her and I still keep in touch with her today. I wished she was my Mom. She just had so much love in her eyes for her students. I was transferred to this school and it was her first year teaching. I was very shy and I didn't know anyone and she knew it. I looked up and I was just staring at her and she caught my eyes and she winked at me. I put my head down in surprise but I loved her so much and still do. We keep in touch and I always tell her I love her very much. She knows my whole family. That was about 35 years ago and I love her as much then as I do now. Even when she got married and had a child I wished I was her child. She still treats me like her student when I was younger and of course I would love to spend a whole day with her. We get together sometimes and I am still her student even though I am married and have children of my own. She knows my husband and kids too. It just kills me every time she says it, this is one of my former students. But I am proud I was and the love she has for me when she sees me. It is hard for her to realize I am a women with a family of my own but in her eyes she sees that shy girl sitting in the front row in her class.
is it normal that i wish my teacher loved me like a daughter
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Since she is no longer your counselor I would would call her and spend time with her. That was a school issue and you can do what you want. If she means that much to you don't let her go. Tell her. Unfortunately that is a policy, I had a teacher that was very affectionate to her students and the school board told her she had to stop. It changed her. I was 16 when I met her and I still keep in touch with her today. I wished she was my Mom. She just had so much love in her eyes for her students. I was transferred to this school and it was her first year teaching. I was very shy and I didn't know anyone and she knew it. I looked up and I was just staring at her and she caught my eyes and she winked at me. I put my head down in surprise but I loved her so much and still do. We keep in touch and I always tell her I love her very much. She knows my whole family. That was about 35 years ago and I love her as much then as I do now. Even when she got married and had a child I wished I was her child. She still treats me like her student when I was younger and of course I would love to spend a whole day with her. We get together sometimes and I am still her student even though I am married and have children of my own. She knows my husband and kids too. It just kills me every time she says it, this is one of my former students. But I am proud I was and the love she has for me when she sees me. It is hard for her to realize I am a women with a family of my own but in her eyes she sees that shy girl sitting in the front row in her class.