I have the same thing. I have had a female teacher (early 30's)for the past two school years and I'm supposed to have her for my next two as well. She's single and embraces it. I was pretty friendly with her freshmen year, but sophomore year(I'm 16) was a terrible year, and she got me through it with a smile. I honestly came to school to see her, even if it was just during class. She was so supportive of me and it's wonderful. I went through a sexual harassment/bullying thing in the past year. I was abused on the way home from school for months and she's the only one who noticed anything different about me. I was physically flipped upside down and dry-humped by this kid, and my parents didn't even know until after I told her and the school called them. The kid was expelled and I was then subject to a massive amount of bullying, and random people yelling "FREE %%&%%" at me wherever I was recognized. I still get comments about it almost daily, even at work. The boy was a senior and he now has to register as a sex offender when he turns 18. I feel so bad that I told on the kid. He was screwing me up mentally, but I feel terrible that his life was basically ruined. That's a majority of the reason I let it go on so long. It also made me feel desirable and as if someone could love me and find me attractive.So anyway this teacher helped me through so many different phases of depression and was basically my therapist. She's so caring and she was the only person who I could talk to throughout the whole process. My parents gave up on me and left me to take care of everything myself. They just assumed I had temped the boy to do things like this to me. I eventually was in a really bad place and had a lot of suicidal thoughts and I had a plan and everything. And also at that point my best friend was about to graduate and my only other friend decided she didn't like me anymore and she just gave up on me. Her sister, who was a senior, and literally my closest friend, eventually did the same. I was in such a bad place that I literally craved her attention because it was obvious that she cared. It was refreshing to not have someone constantly bashing me and telling me I don't have friends. My sisters are in the same fan club for some teenybopper boy band, and they even got their friends in on it and I had people hating on me everywhere. I literally only had this teacher and I became so attached. I don't think she has any idea of the impact she's had on me. She literally has saved my life more than once without realizing it, and she's been so good to me. She inspires me to do so many things, including not take my life. She inspires me to dress however I want to and to embrace who I am. I want to grow up and be exactly like her My parents and family now think we have a sexual lesbian relationship, and they make fun of the only person I have to look up to. They try insulting her because she's not skinny, and they cringe when I say how beautiful she is, both physically and personality wise. I truly believe that everyone's beautiful, and it doesn't matter what your body shape is. Whatever, just a rant and a way to get my feelings out. She's the most amazing and incredible person I've ever met. I want to be as great of a person as she is someday, and I hope I know her for the rest of my life. XOXO love you nj
is it normal that i wish my teacher loved me like a daughter
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I have the same thing. I have had a female teacher (early 30's)for the past two school years and I'm supposed to have her for my next two as well. She's single and embraces it. I was pretty friendly with her freshmen year, but sophomore year(I'm 16) was a terrible year, and she got me through it with a smile. I honestly came to school to see her, even if it was just during class. She was so supportive of me and it's wonderful. I went through a sexual harassment/bullying thing in the past year. I was abused on the way home from school for months and she's the only one who noticed anything different about me. I was physically flipped upside down and dry-humped by this kid, and my parents didn't even know until after I told her and the school called them. The kid was expelled and I was then subject to a massive amount of bullying, and random people yelling "FREE %%&%%" at me wherever I was recognized. I still get comments about it almost daily, even at work. The boy was a senior and he now has to register as a sex offender when he turns 18. I feel so bad that I told on the kid. He was screwing me up mentally, but I feel terrible that his life was basically ruined. That's a majority of the reason I let it go on so long. It also made me feel desirable and as if someone could love me and find me attractive.So anyway this teacher helped me through so many different phases of depression and was basically my therapist. She's so caring and she was the only person who I could talk to throughout the whole process. My parents gave up on me and left me to take care of everything myself. They just assumed I had temped the boy to do things like this to me. I eventually was in a really bad place and had a lot of suicidal thoughts and I had a plan and everything. And also at that point my best friend was about to graduate and my only other friend decided she didn't like me anymore and she just gave up on me. Her sister, who was a senior, and literally my closest friend, eventually did the same. I was in such a bad place that I literally craved her attention because it was obvious that she cared. It was refreshing to not have someone constantly bashing me and telling me I don't have friends. My sisters are in the same fan club for some teenybopper boy band, and they even got their friends in on it and I had people hating on me everywhere. I literally only had this teacher and I became so attached. I don't think she has any idea of the impact she's had on me. She literally has saved my life more than once without realizing it, and she's been so good to me. She inspires me to do so many things, including not take my life. She inspires me to dress however I want to and to embrace who I am. I want to grow up and be exactly like her My parents and family now think we have a sexual lesbian relationship, and they make fun of the only person I have to look up to. They try insulting her because she's not skinny, and they cringe when I say how beautiful she is, both physically and personality wise. I truly believe that everyone's beautiful, and it doesn't matter what your body shape is. Whatever, just a rant and a way to get my feelings out. She's the most amazing and incredible person I've ever met. I want to be as great of a person as she is someday, and I hope I know her for the rest of my life. XOXO love you nj