OMG!!! I found it, I found it, a post where I can feel safe. I didn't know so many people have this same situation going on. And i know it wasn't only me, but all of you!!! This is amazing,how one teacher can affect your life in a positive way. I found this site last year, and I was still scared post something, but now I look at this, as a group thing.
See there was was this teacher, and she is awesome, we've been together for a year now, and it's going to be 2 years this September. Over the time period, I learned to love her more and more, until she was the only person who I could trust. WE spend time together, basically everyday or whenever I can see her. Like I have to make plans for certain things so I could see her. And everyday, she begins to be more motherly to me only, other people don't see that side of her where she's nice, have an amazing laughter, good sense of humor, and soft-spoken. Some people only see her as mean, loud mouth teacher, but I just think, you son't know her, so you can't judge her, and all of those mean things are put aside as I look at it.
She has a better life than them, she has a husband, and a son (my baby bro), she's not a student, she's a grown woman, who has a life, and control of it. I love her so much!!! She even protects me like a daughter, she told some boys to leave me alone, and that I was her daughter. Rumors spread and basically everyone knew that I was her daughter.
Those boys were stupid enough to believe it, but I'm glad that they did it,and she's glad also, because she said, I inspired her at times, and vice-versa with me. I really wish she was my mother, I love the title as her daughter, and those students never ever mess with me.
But lately I have been seeing her as a kind of love, still a mother, but more in-depth. I don't know what has happen over the course of our relationship, but I don't ever want to let things get in the way.
I made some mistakes this year that resulted her not talking to me for couple of days. She was heart-broken, and me knowing her so well than anybody else, she cried, cause of what I did. It seems kind of weird for a teacher to cry because of a student, but I'm not an ordinary student. I'm someone who knows secrets, who she can talk to, but at arm's length, because I'm not an adult yet. In her mind, I'm still a child with an intelligent mind, and even though I'm mature for my age, she doesn't trust me with any personal, personal! information. Those mistakes left scars for both of us, and I over-think things too much, and that's why I did them.
I mean you've been with this person over a year, you've seen them out of school, you spend time with them longer than anyone, you have their number to call and text them when you have problems, and just need to talk. You don't think you should at least have an "I love you" for all of the things you've done to make them trust you, and like you.
I don't want to be selfish, but I at least deserve one after all of the craziness over the 1 year and a 1/2. Anyway 9 of friends know that I have a teacher crush on her, and they asked questions, and they said they're cool. I know they are and they also laugh when I say how I want to see her, and spend more time, and how good she looks whenever I see her with them. And they know some things they can't say or joke about.
I feel relieved to see all of these people with this situation. And it's not a problem for people to wish that their teachers love them like their own. That's just you trusting someone who can do things to sort out your problems, but they're not one. It's not a problem if some people have it too. Those people who don't have teachers that we have are missing out on great relationships with someone who cares.
I'm going to miss my teacher love when I leave school, and there will be tears, and that time sayings like , "I love you," and "I'll miss you," But that time hasn't come, so I taking every moment I can to spend time with her, and getting to know her more than I do.
I'll admit, I'm not a student who wishes that their teacher loved them as a daughter. I'm proof that my teacher loves me like her own daughter.
ShellieMays You are lucky to have that teacher that let you sit on her lap, and hugged you, and said, "I love you," I'm soo jealous!, but I'm glad for you.
In Paris we will be together soon, whoever reads this welcome to the club. You are now a teacher's child.
I love your story so much! You are an amazing inspiration and I wish I was like you! I'm jealous of how you are so close with your teacher,I'm such an awkward person who thinks things.over way too much,and I'm not able to talk to my favorite teacher freely because I just don't trust her enough,although i want to. When I share.my story this will make more sense, but I can totally relate to having scars in our relationship.
is it normal that i wish my teacher loved me like a daughter
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OMG!!! I found it, I found it, a post where I can feel safe. I didn't know so many people have this same situation going on. And i know it wasn't only me, but all of you!!! This is amazing,how one teacher can affect your life in a positive way. I found this site last year, and I was still scared post something, but now I look at this, as a group thing.
See there was was this teacher, and she is awesome, we've been together for a year now, and it's going to be 2 years this September. Over the time period, I learned to love her more and more, until she was the only person who I could trust. WE spend time together, basically everyday or whenever I can see her. Like I have to make plans for certain things so I could see her. And everyday, she begins to be more motherly to me only, other people don't see that side of her where she's nice, have an amazing laughter, good sense of humor, and soft-spoken. Some people only see her as mean, loud mouth teacher, but I just think, you son't know her, so you can't judge her, and all of those mean things are put aside as I look at it.
She has a better life than them, she has a husband, and a son (my baby bro), she's not a student, she's a grown woman, who has a life, and control of it. I love her so much!!! She even protects me like a daughter, she told some boys to leave me alone, and that I was her daughter. Rumors spread and basically everyone knew that I was her daughter.
Those boys were stupid enough to believe it, but I'm glad that they did it,and she's glad also, because she said, I inspired her at times, and vice-versa with me. I really wish she was my mother, I love the title as her daughter, and those students never ever mess with me.
But lately I have been seeing her as a kind of love, still a mother, but more in-depth. I don't know what has happen over the course of our relationship, but I don't ever want to let things get in the way.
I made some mistakes this year that resulted her not talking to me for couple of days. She was heart-broken, and me knowing her so well than anybody else, she cried, cause of what I did. It seems kind of weird for a teacher to cry because of a student, but I'm not an ordinary student. I'm someone who knows secrets, who she can talk to, but at arm's length, because I'm not an adult yet. In her mind, I'm still a child with an intelligent mind, and even though I'm mature for my age, she doesn't trust me with any personal, personal! information. Those mistakes left scars for both of us, and I over-think things too much, and that's why I did them.
I mean you've been with this person over a year, you've seen them out of school, you spend time with them longer than anyone, you have their number to call and text them when you have problems, and just need to talk. You don't think you should at least have an "I love you" for all of the things you've done to make them trust you, and like you.
I don't want to be selfish, but I at least deserve one after all of the craziness over the 1 year and a 1/2. Anyway 9 of friends know that I have a teacher crush on her, and they asked questions, and they said they're cool. I know they are and they also laugh when I say how I want to see her, and spend more time, and how good she looks whenever I see her with them. And they know some things they can't say or joke about.
I feel relieved to see all of these people with this situation. And it's not a problem for people to wish that their teachers love them like their own. That's just you trusting someone who can do things to sort out your problems, but they're not one. It's not a problem if some people have it too. Those people who don't have teachers that we have are missing out on great relationships with someone who cares.
I'm going to miss my teacher love when I leave school, and there will be tears, and that time sayings like , "I love you," and "I'll miss you," But that time hasn't come, so I taking every moment I can to spend time with her, and getting to know her more than I do.
I'll admit, I'm not a student who wishes that their teacher loved them as a daughter. I'm proof that my teacher loves me like her own daughter.
ShellieMays You are lucky to have that teacher that let you sit on her lap, and hugged you, and said, "I love you," I'm soo jealous!, but I'm glad for you.
In Paris we will be together soon, whoever reads this welcome to the club. You are now a teacher's child.
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I love your story so much! You are an amazing inspiration and I wish I was like you! I'm jealous of how you are so close with your teacher,I'm such an awkward person who thinks things.over way too much,and I'm not able to talk to my favorite teacher freely because I just don't trust her enough,although i want to. When I share.my story this will make more sense, but I can totally relate to having scars in our relationship.