I exactly know how you feel. i am 21. yes, for more or less, i'm in the same situation like you. almost everyone knows my family and it affects their point of view when i do something usual or unusual. like when i was still at school, i did something bad like all the students generally did. the teachers got annoyed to me and my friends. to my friend they said "you are a student here, do not do something outta the rules, bla bla", and theeeeeen...... as usual... here they came to me, they said "i know you're a grand daughter of.... and a daughter of...., but it doesnt mean you can do anything you like in this school environment. you see your friends, they live not as rich as you live your life. you have to feel emphatic on them, bla bla".
another situation at the college, suddenly i got some case which involved my teachers/lecturers, on of them said "i see you are very exclusive here, you look like only make friends with certain people. it's not good, bla bla bla", my reaction was "ha? i dont understand what you're talking about", i meant i made friends with everyone, i take myself as very warm and open. but yes when i got one best friend, it's not easy to adapt with or be best friends with others, right? and....... yeaaaah they won't or couldnt understand me, and it's not surprising.
Is it normal that I wish my family was not that wealthy?
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I exactly know how you feel. i am 21. yes, for more or less, i'm in the same situation like you. almost everyone knows my family and it affects their point of view when i do something usual or unusual. like when i was still at school, i did something bad like all the students generally did. the teachers got annoyed to me and my friends. to my friend they said "you are a student here, do not do something outta the rules, bla bla", and theeeeeen...... as usual... here they came to me, they said "i know you're a grand daughter of.... and a daughter of...., but it doesnt mean you can do anything you like in this school environment. you see your friends, they live not as rich as you live your life. you have to feel emphatic on them, bla bla".
another situation at the college, suddenly i got some case which involved my teachers/lecturers, on of them said "i see you are very exclusive here, you look like only make friends with certain people. it's not good, bla bla bla", my reaction was "ha? i dont understand what you're talking about", i meant i made friends with everyone, i take myself as very warm and open. but yes when i got one best friend, it's not easy to adapt with or be best friends with others, right? and....... yeaaaah they won't or couldnt understand me, and it's not surprising.