Is it normal that i wish my brother dead

I grew up with a very aggressive brother. The best thing he does is makes me feel bad about myself. Many time he made me want to kill myself. Everyday I prey to God to take his life away. I wish he will get run over by a car tomorrow. I won't shed a tear at his funeral.

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Comments ( 15 )
  • theytookthisone

    Well God gave you free-will for a reason...so you can take matters into your own hands! Think about it ;) ;)

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  • ironsoviet

    I think it's fine. If someone wrongs you enough, you should wish them dead. And blood doesn't mean as much as most people think. Emotional bonds are worth much more.

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  • LeAnn17

    My brother is dead. Maybe they irritate you sometimes. Or all the time. They get all the attention. But you don't know what you have until it's gone.

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    • Memelord

      Enough of the bullshit, any abusive brother like described above may as well get thrown off steep cliff

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  • king_of_montana

    I understand how you feel. Perhaps out of jealousy, my brother has always enjoyed whenever I'm in pain or suffering too. And I've prayed that he be killed off in some way too and never return. How much better the family would be off without him, and how much better my life would be.

    There is nothing wrong with your way of thinking. Your feelings are understandable. And don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Trust me on that. Life is precious my friend, don't throw yours away.

    If you're forced to live with yours like I am then keep your distance from him as much ad possible. When you're in a position to move out you'll never have to see him ever again. Keep your strength until then.

    If you need someone to talk to send me a message and we can exchange emails. I'm here for you.

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  • I_steal_free_bread

    In the night I hear him tell,
    The coldest story ever told...
    Somewhere far along this road he lost his soul,
    To a woman so heartless...

    How could you be so heartless?

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  • bubber

    Killing someone will be the biggest mistake of your life.

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  • Meanpeoplesuck

    My brother is a sociopath. He tried to murder my sister when I went away to college and he was 16 and she was 12. He is a cruel, vicious and mean-spirited person who has grown up to destroy our family. He beats his wife and his children. My mother is delusional and covers up for him ... it is as if me and my sister do not even exist. Her world revolved trying to find favor from a vicious, sadistic monster. It is OK to hate someone who is evil ... there is nothing wrong with hating someone who is a monster. I do not think Hitlers brothers and sisters loved him. I certainly do not love my brother. I wish he was dead so we could have Christmas as a family. His wifer suffers from battered woman syndrome but is an otherwise kind and loving woman. If he were dead, then we could all he happy and the world would be a much better place. The truth is ... the truth!

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  • he sounds awful and you are being bullied its no wonder you're mad at him. say to him "you sound like you hate me and that makes me sad" then walk away and ignore him from then on. he will think about it unless he is a complete savage. if he is a cretin stay away from him and move away when you can. btw nasty childhood relationships can become healthy and loving in the future they really can. good luck

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  • blackpplsuck

    Of course it's normal I have wished the same on my brother. I'm a black woman,and I'm jealous of the fact that black men can ir date so easily but us black women can't. My brother is dating a white woman and it makes me sick cause it's so hard to find a white guy when you're a black girl. My brother has always received more love from my mom than I have. It just makes me sick the whole thing.

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  • Legion

    i wouldent wish that on anybody, no matter how much i disliked them. For one, ive learned the hard way that stuff like that comes back on you ten fold. Remember, karmas a bitch, evereybody tends to get what they deserve.

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    • Memelord

      Everyone gets what they deserve? What about all of the great people who for whatever reason die early?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    have you talked to your parents?

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  • If God took his life away u would wish that sorrow could build a staircase, or tears could show the way so u could climb ur way to Heaven, and bring him back home to u.

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  • Sweetz

    You should never wish that upon someone no matter how much you dislike person and your brother might be a jerk but come on... Really??? Don't say that

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