Is it normal that i wish i were still a virgin?

By my last year of college, I recklessly gave my virginity away because I was sick of being so innocent and wanted to try sex. Now, I regret it because I want to get married one day. Am I being overly sensitive about this? I'm not particularly religious, it's just the principle of it. If I finally met someone I wanted to marry, I would feel as though I betrayed him because I'm not a virgin.

Is It Normal?
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  • Well..... it depends on the situation. i wish i had mine back. but mine was taken from me. i didnt give it away. i dont think u should worry about ur future man though. just be honest with him and try to make him happy and make yourself happy. dont stress.

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  • dont get too caught up in regret of something that u cant go back and change. in the future though, pnly hace sex with someone you love.

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    • You're absolutely right.

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  • You need to get over that way of thinking. It's too old fashioned. Your future man does not own your virginity. You are not betraying him.

    I say enjoy your youth, don't worry too much about the future.

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    • OK. :)

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  • Very few people enter in a marriage as a virgin now days. Most have had sex with other people in their past.

    I think it's a weird way of thinking.

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  • I plan on stating a virgin. I loke the idea and to me it's something to be proud of when I make it all the way to marriage. So yeah it's normal.

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  • Well it's a personal and public lesson: you shouldn't have just done it because you were bored. Some men will think differently about you.

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  • its ok u made a mistake.. at least u feel bad about it.. just make sure ur husband knows before u get married

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  • not much point worrying about it now, the seal has been broken! get out there & grab some tail

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  • Really loved who? A ghost from the future who may not even exist? He could be a virgin. I look innocent, so I attract younger guys. LOL. That would figure.

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  • Chances are that the man your gonna marry has proba
    bly fucked more girls than youve have fucked guys......

    Just saying..

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    • Disgusting.

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  • I think this is normal.. Sex is for marriage but urges get the best of us every time it seems.. I wish my wife and I waited. It would be another super thing we would be connected with.. Sometimes I think sex keeps people together even if its a bad relationship that should of ended by now. But I know for fact Guys stay for sex not so sure for woman.

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  • yep ! it might give u mental pressure

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  • You're normal, but no need to sulk. What's already happened has happened, so just learn from it. Be more careful about who you sleep with next time, because you have control over that, not the past.

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    • Yup, sulking is a bad habit. No more casual situations for me. :)

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  • Jerqler ~ Aww, thanks. lol.

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  • Ah, I see. Ok, thanks. Well, I guess I'll just have to date new boys and see what happens. Thanks for your opinion.

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  • Its normal but avoid sex because u can end up with sickness such as AIDS. When u are a virgin it diffrenciate u from other people and u become proud of urself..Know the diffrence between Love and Lust and never allow someone to play or destroy ur life (virginity) may God forgives our sins.

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    • "never allow someone to destroy ur (virginity)" -
      uhh, i think it's a little late for that advice.

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  • you are whore and you should die as one thats what the bible says so good luck in hell !

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    • Really uncool, Shamanic. That's not what the Bible says. Sure the Bible says we are all sinners. We deserve hell but it isn't necessary or unavoidable. Jesus paid the price for our sins, and there's forgiveness, cleansing, and renewal if we repent and trust Him. That's the real message of the Bible.

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    • I am not a whore. I have only slept with one person, and I waited until I was 21.

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