I feel your pain girl. I was molested at the age of 6 by my babysitters younger brother who was 16. I was scared and didnt really know what to do so I ignored it then I finally vented to my mother about it but it was after the family moved to another community. Anyways its important to address your feelings and just ignore ppl that say hurtful things cause you are so much better than that. If it still affects you till this day, talk to someone you trust and just know that you as an individual has a right to speak up and even address it to your brother indirectly, like maybe a letter even if it is awkward so he knows how much he has hurt you, but also that you are strong and can move on. Just try to be strong and confident, and know that you are a beautiful person and did not deserve any of it. P.S. its really good that you are getting this out of your system so you can finally get some closure, you should be proud of yourself.
Thanks for the comments. I'm working on getting therapy. I know after things like this happen to people the feel like its their fauly, but I know it wasnt mine. I just feel as if there he is suffering as we speak. Being 26 with no job, no car, little education, living out of his girlfriends car, and begging my parents for dollars daily. I have a close relationship with my mom, but I cant figure out how to tell her. Perhaps it will just happen one day, but right now my focus is bettering myself. I'm very happey you commented, because what you said made me feel so much better. Thanks You
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I feel your pain girl. I was molested at the age of 6 by my babysitters younger brother who was 16. I was scared and didnt really know what to do so I ignored it then I finally vented to my mother about it but it was after the family moved to another community. Anyways its important to address your feelings and just ignore ppl that say hurtful things cause you are so much better than that. If it still affects you till this day, talk to someone you trust and just know that you as an individual has a right to speak up and even address it to your brother indirectly, like maybe a letter even if it is awkward so he knows how much he has hurt you, but also that you are strong and can move on. Just try to be strong and confident, and know that you are a beautiful person and did not deserve any of it. P.S. its really good that you are getting this out of your system so you can finally get some closure, you should be proud of yourself.
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Thanks for the comments. I'm working on getting therapy. I know after things like this happen to people the feel like its their fauly, but I know it wasnt mine. I just feel as if there he is suffering as we speak. Being 26 with no job, no car, little education, living out of his girlfriends car, and begging my parents for dollars daily. I have a close relationship with my mom, but I cant figure out how to tell her. Perhaps it will just happen one day, but right now my focus is bettering myself. I'm very happey you commented, because what you said made me feel so much better. Thanks You