Well, I have always been completely different from you but that´s OK, I did not come here to argue with you or try to persuade you that my views and motivation is better. So, instead of writing about my point of view, I would like to ask a few questions. Because, as I said, my case is totally different from yours, so I just want to understand or to make sure if I understand or misunderstand what you have written.
So I would be interested in these things:
1.In one sentence in your original post you have written: "18...that´s when everyone else wants kids". Why do you think that everyone else wants kids at the age of 18? Personally, 99 % of people I know did not want to have kids at that age.
2.Don´t you ever feel the desire to have sex for "sexual reasons" (pleasure, etc...) besides the reason you mention (having kids)?
3.Let´s suppose you will marry and have sex which will result in having kid(s) in your future marriage. Would you like to stop having sex after you have kids? In other words, can you imagine having sex, let´s say with your legitimate husband, even if having kids would be out of question (e.g. at times when conception is very unlikely or when you will not want to have another child etc...)?
to answer your questions
1. through my life every girl and guy I have known does.I guess I was exaggerating a bit there.
2. No.To put it simply,no.I have a extremely low pain threshold and can't even take injections even though,I say I plan on having kids,I have no idea how I'm going to suppress childbirth I might have the operation to get it cut out instead of vaginal birth but I'll cross that bridge nearer the time.
3. I will be able to contain myself due to my answer and question 2 I might have sex again but defiantly not when the kids are in the house I'd do it when they are in their late teens and out the house if I did.
Is it normal that I want to wait for marrige for sex
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Well, I have always been completely different from you but that´s OK, I did not come here to argue with you or try to persuade you that my views and motivation is better. So, instead of writing about my point of view, I would like to ask a few questions. Because, as I said, my case is totally different from yours, so I just want to understand or to make sure if I understand or misunderstand what you have written.
So I would be interested in these things:
1.In one sentence in your original post you have written: "18...that´s when everyone else wants kids". Why do you think that everyone else wants kids at the age of 18? Personally, 99 % of people I know did not want to have kids at that age.
2.Don´t you ever feel the desire to have sex for "sexual reasons" (pleasure, etc...) besides the reason you mention (having kids)?
3.Let´s suppose you will marry and have sex which will result in having kid(s) in your future marriage. Would you like to stop having sex after you have kids? In other words, can you imagine having sex, let´s say with your legitimate husband, even if having kids would be out of question (e.g. at times when conception is very unlikely or when you will not want to have another child etc...)?
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to answer your questions
1. through my life every girl and guy I have known does.I guess I was exaggerating a bit there.
2. No.To put it simply,no.I have a extremely low pain threshold and can't even take injections even though,I say I plan on having kids,I have no idea how I'm going to suppress childbirth I might have the operation to get it cut out instead of vaginal birth but I'll cross that bridge nearer the time.
3. I will be able to contain myself due to my answer and question 2 I might have sex again but defiantly not when the kids are in the house I'd do it when they are in their late teens and out the house if I did.