Is it normal that i want to wait for marriage to have sex?

Almost everyone I know has already, or is planning to have sex. I feel like I am the only person that still wants to wait for marriage. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • to many religion i say

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  • Aww. It's sweet.

    Good luck with that.

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    • you should most deffiently wait

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      • Less likely to get stuck with a baby . Less likely to get STD should wiat till your older should check if they are clean and not fucking around with every man and women . poeple think having sex with a big deal but scienctificly your body is not ready for sex until your mid 20s and 30s . Little kids are not sexually or mantelly ready to have sex and it can really mess them up in the heads . Also if someone is willing to wiat till marriage it means they are more commited to you just like someone who is willing to be your boyfreind it more commited than a guy asking to fuck if your freind keeps asking to have sex but refuses to date you he is saying " I think your a whore and I see you as unworthy of ever being with me becuase in my eyes your just your just a filthy slut" . This also makes it less likely he is going to have sex and leave you with the child . Also if you have sex with multiple partners you are not dating or not married too what will happen if you get pragnent ? either kill the child or that child grows up without a daddy ? becuase you fealt like sleeping around ? Thier is a hundred practical reasons to wiat for sex that if someone is commited he will say i love you enough to date you not just to fuck you . If a boyfreind has known you long enough hell say I love you enough to engage not be your boyfreind till I find a prettier chick in the next month and if you two choose to you can adopt or have a baby yourselves . Thats the piont of waiting so you know they are commited enough to say yah I will commit i am not gonna keep asking you to fuck me but not willing to hook up beats thier spouse is not respecting thier partner .

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        • I kinda agree with you but I still don't

          What I agree with,
          I agree that sex is overrated
          I agree that you should wait until you find the right one that is willing to commit.

          What I disagree with,
          I don't think it's necessary to wait until you're married before doing it.
          As long as you've been together for longer period of time and he/she has shown that they really wants to be with you then it should be fine.

          Just to be clear
          I'm not saying it's wrong to wait but I don't think you have to be married before doing it.
          But if you do it before you're married then you should always use protection because as you've said, no child should grow up without a father/mother.

          (Trust me when I tell you that I know how much it can suck)

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  • Good luck with that.

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  • I know I might be the weird one here but I thik you should just go for it.. Marriage is really not worth a wait anyways. Life's too short for old-fashioned inhibitions imo! But whatever floats your boat I guess..?

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  • I thinks it's better to wait until you're married. You're not the only person that wants to wait for marriage, there are many other who prefer it afterwards

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  • yeah, I've always thought it's kinda old-fashioned and outdated, but either I'm growing old or it's just the right way in the world where sex is the driving force of all the marketing campains you see around.

    Totally normal, best of luck!

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