Is it normal that i want to try smoking so bad??

Ok, I've always wanted to try smoking, but where I live its sort of a sitgma if you smoke...

One other thing, is it normal that I despise women who smoke so much, yet I want to be just ike them ??

This weird guys I know smoking is bad and all but I just WANT to try it!!

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Based on 98 votes (58 yes)
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  • randomjelly

    You will reek...clothes, breath, you name it.

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  • evasivemumbling

    Personally, I think you should try it, odds are, you won't like it!!
    However, I have been a smoker for 6 years and I love cigarettes. Well, its a bit of a love/hate relationship...

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  • it stinks don't go there

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  • rustynut

    I smoke and I regret even trying it. I can't stop it controls me. So don't try. Stay healthy

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  • alv1592

    You can make your own choices, but it's unhealthy and wastes money. Just sayin. But you could try the electronic cig. My brother was using that for a while.

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    • Duckra5521

      For all the people recommending electronic cigarettes, those are still addictive. They retain the nicotine content of cigarettes and sometimes have even more than a cigarette. They just cut out most of the cancer-causing substances. (Nicotine IS listed as a carcinogen, rapes your heart for everything it has, and has the same addictiveness as heroin).

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  • SMILEifyourstupid

    I don't smoke and I'd match rather date a man who doesn't smoke, but I have to admit that (like someone said before) there's just something so sexy about mysterious looking men when they smoke, maybe it just adds to their mysteriousness lol
    But anyway, yeah, don't try it. why don't you buy an electronic cigarette or something?

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  • wreckd

    I first started smoking at a party when I was 16. Some other girls were smoking and I thought it was cool so I bummed one, and then another and another. I knew it was bad for me and like an idiot, I still smoked it. I wouldn't try it. If you have an addictive personality, one time may be all it takes.

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  • Don't try it, I've been smoking since I was 13 now and I regret it. Your health is precious, don't ruin it for a whim.

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  • Is it worth getting addicted and getting all the bad effects that comes from it and not to mention all the money you'll waste because of this stupid addiction? I think not.

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  • JCA

    I had the same! you are just curious! But if you think to all the effects of it! No it was not worth for me to even try it!

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  • heels

    Totally normal urge/desire, smoking is a very sensual activity.

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  • bdtttlera

    No cigarettes though that shit will kill you faster than your mom would if she where pissed at you cancer on a stick

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  • bdtttlera

    Sure smoke some pot.the first time I ever smoked was my junior year of hgh school.it was an after-school project I was working on one afternoon and one of my friends I new that year said lets skip and smoke in his car, so we hotboxed the fwk out of that car smoked like 6 bowls of spice,""but again I didn't know spice was bad for you at the time I was smoking for the first time"" anyways, I was stoned as fwk and from that day and that moment I was like I need to get me some weed one of the best decision I've made,that shit will wreek though.im 21 now, perfectly healthy and still smoking every other week

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  • motherlovebone69120

    First off, we all know smoking is bad for your health, is expensive, makes you stink and seems to have a stigma attached to it these days. I first tried it in 1969 at the tender age of 11. I didn't really know how to inhale, but smoked a few cigs that I stole from my aunt every once in a while. At 13, I lit up one of my aunt's Kools and figured out how to do it properly. When that smoke hit my lungs, I was totally hooked.I smoked on & off for the next few years, but was basically a closet smoker. Once I hit around 17, I smoked more. I moved out of my parent's house at 19 with a girlfriend. She was a smoker, as were about 95% of the women I met and dated. I smoked more when I drank, as do most people. I started smoking feminine cigs at some point and in the 90's I would buy a pack of my "masculine" cigs, usually Winston 100's or maybe Marlboro Light 100's, along with a pack of long 120mm feminine ones like Misty's, Virginia Slims, Carltons, or Mores. I would smoke the 120's to feel a little feminine and would always masturbate while smoking one. My wife quit for good in the early 90's to my chagrin. She had to when she got pregnant, but chose never to start up again. I told her i quit too, but started back up pretty quickly. Over the years, I would "quit" on New Year's Day, and eventually start back up, when my urge to smoke got too intense. I quit for a day, a week, a month, once for nine months, always to start back up. It was the single hardest thing I ever did, when I finally quit. I had made up mind that when I bought a brand new car, that would be the last day I smoked, since I didn't want to stink up the new car. I did just that in 2002 and despite some urges have resisted starting up again. I never was a "heavy smoker", usually averaging a half pack or less a day, unless I was out drinking all night. With all that being said, I still get erotically turned on watching an attractive girl smoke, especially long feminine cigs. I am going through a sexual identity crisis for the last couple of months, suddenly getting intensely aroused by the sight of a hard penis. I really want to find the right man to lose my "virginity" to. I have already decided that when I do have a gay encounter, I will start smoking again, even after 12 years being smoke-free. Smoking always calmed my nerves and would be a way of wrapping my head around it all. I will buy a pack or two of my favorite 120's, most likely Mistys. I will already have asked my potential lover if he would be ok with it. It would be a deal breaker if he says no. I want to smoke a cig or two before, definitely one during and absolutely one after sex. I would smoke them very sensually and feminine like just for him. I guess it is my way of letting my feminine side out. I think it will enhance the sex for me and my lover. This is how powerful these things are, so if you understand all that and still want to try it, go for it. I don't care what anyone says, a cute girl smoking a 120 cigarette is a turn on, actually a cute girl smoking at all is a turn on.

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    • heels

      I'm with you buddy, we all started smoking because it is a very sexual activity. Seeing a young guy with a cig is a total turn on for me, even today. I love breathing another guys used smoke as well.
      I hope you find happiness, and enjoy your first encounter with another guy....

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  • MysteriousChick92

    I've been smoking since I was 16 (almost 21 now). Smoking and me? We have a love hate relationship. I want to quit, but my job gets stressful, so then I can't. Like a lot of people have stated, if you have that addictive personality, don't try it. If not, still don't.

    I didn't like smoking the the first 3 times I did it. It made me feel sick, made me cough, and made me feel a little lightheaded. I'm used to it now, so it doesn't bother me anymore, but it's not worth spending all that money and fucking up your health.

    My point is, don't do it. It's not worth trying even once.

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  • Fidgety

    I suggest you try a cigar first, since they don't taste nasty like cigarettes. Plus, I think they don't have all those chemicals that cigarettes have.

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  • radiatelove

    why do you despise women who smoke? i don't hate women who don't smoke (i'm just an occasional smoker though).

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  • disthing

    We often gravitate towards things that are taboo, especially when teenagers. Curiosity is natural, and when it has a hint of rebellion it makes whatever it is all the more enticing.

    If you have an addictive personality (that is, you're predisposed to become addicted to things; alcohol, gambling, gaming, television etc.) it may not be the best idea, but if you know you have willpower, then smoking 1 cigarette won't matter AT ALL. The novelty wears off very quickly :)

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  • anonymous2020

    Coming from a current smoker/quitter(I'm trying so fucking hard) don't do it I wish I never started. Granted I smoke marijuana I can stop at any time and be ok not smoking for awhile. For example I haven't smoked a thing in about a month and cigarettes are the only thing I really crave. Weed is more of an "ehh I'd like to but I dont need to" for me, but cigarettes are a whole other story I constantly think about them and no matter how long I quit for the urge remains. Don't start it isn't cool.

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  • Sparkles16

    1 won't kill ya. Who cares what people think, if you want to do it. You can. But it is an unhealthy choice. So Don't do anymore than one if you try.

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  • majboos

    Thank you very much guys your comments were very helpful. I knew that smoking is no more than a very stupid idea...

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  • destiny.94

    I'm currently tempted to try it but I'm still holding back a bit. My boyfriend is a chain smoker and he tells me how he regrets ever starting and doesn't want me making the same mistake he did, but I still have this temptation to start smoking. Hmmmm

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  • dappled

    Don't be surprised if it makes you want to throw up.

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  • thebuddah

    I have been 11 days clean :) don't do it! It's gross and pointless

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  • CountryRoads

    Then try it...

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  • What'sMyName?

    Why would you want to? It's pointless.

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  • LensVagen

    Been there done that and you stink.... I couldn't stand smelling like that ewww. It's a cross between ass and more ass. Don't do it

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  • georgienne

    I used to smoke and have always wanted to go back.
    Try it. You may not like it, in which case you can say you tried and live without. Or you might love it, and decide whether and when you want to continue.

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  • I dont smoke but I find the appearance of smoking suits men more and that women who do it just look off.

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  • Eore

    All these comments sound like anti-smoking adds. It's your life, if you want to smoke go for it. Word to the wise: Start off with a light or a menthol

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