You're getting off topic and I'm not even quite sure what you mean by "subservient to his own desires at the expense of the kids"
My point I was making is that you talk down about your husband regarding his scars. You have made several statements that support this. What I thought was sad is that the person who should support him the most doesn't seem to have a high opinion of him.
The sex thing isn't even so much the big deal, but is a normal part of most relationships. you do sound asexual and that is ok but I do wonder how he feels about this.
I understand it's not my business but you did come here to ask so I am giving my opinion. If you don't like what people think then don't ask them.
IIN that I want to permanently deny sex to my husband?
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That doesn't even make any sense. This has nothing to do with me.
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So you think he should be subservient to his own desires at the expense of the kids. You have a selfish attitude.
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You're getting off topic and I'm not even quite sure what you mean by "subservient to his own desires at the expense of the kids"
My point I was making is that you talk down about your husband regarding his scars. You have made several statements that support this. What I thought was sad is that the person who should support him the most doesn't seem to have a high opinion of him.
The sex thing isn't even so much the big deal, but is a normal part of most relationships. you do sound asexual and that is ok but I do wonder how he feels about this.
I understand it's not my business but you did come here to ask so I am giving my opinion. If you don't like what people think then don't ask them.
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His scars don't bother me. But, I am glad that other women see him as damaged goods. This societal perception makes our relationship possible.