I've just read through this post and your comments and speaking woman to woman, you, OP, sound awful. You say this man loves you but you only married him because you wouldn't have to worry about cheating and you're on here shit talking the man who loves you when he appears to have done nothing to deserve it. You're worried about him cheating yet you actively thought of other people during sex which isn't exactly being faithful. Plus you're cutting sex down to twice a year for no real reason. But you don't want him to cheat? Situations like this are part of the reason hookers are still in business. You say you feel used during sex yet you literally picked this guy for your own selfish reasons, not because you love him. This is all so hypocritical in so many ways. When two people get married, sex is generally part of the deal unless stated otherwise from the beginning. If he's being manipulative or aggressive about it, this would make more sense but you haven't said that. Withholding sex isn't going to make anyone docile or compliant and why would you want him to be like that? What kind of household are you running? I'm sure he could do much better and you clearly have some questions about your sexuality that you should probably explore. Divorce the poor guy and set him and yourself free.
I am exactly where I want to be - the mother of a happy family with a man that is a good father, and who understands team work and partnership to attain mutual goals.
Yes, I know that hookers are in business because of these situations, but there are no hookers that accept money from scar-face men. It is laughable that a hooker would have that much compassion. Anyway, he has his porn magazines.
Remember, I am his only chance at having a family as well.
Not that it really matters, most hookers aren't that picky. If you've got the cash they won't care. They've seen it all. I seriously doubt his scars are that bad, but even if they are, you are not his only chance at a family. There are billions of women out there. Not all of them are as shallow as you. Some people love others for who they are, not what they look like. If this was your attempt to convince me that you aren't as awful as your original post came across, you've failed. Like I said originally, divorce the poor guy.
It doesn't sound very happy. Kids are better off with divorced parents who are able to go on to happier relationships than parents who are only together because it's convenient.
Just because you want to have sex everyday doesn't mean those women who don't are unhappy. Because of my husband's appearance, this will be his only relationship. I am quite satisfied having sex twice a year.
Your advice shows that you simply cannot think past your own situation.
You're the one who is so hung up on physical appearances that you cannot fathom that someone else could possibly be interested in your husband for who he is. You're so convinced that you are his only chance at a relationship and your delusion is very very sad. We're not talking about me. I've never once reference my own situation, nor did I claim I want to have sex everyday (but would that really be such a crime?) nor is this entirely about sex. It's about your very selfish outlook on a situation that concerns more than you. If you would read my responses, you'd see that I'm not talking about your happiness, since you're concerned about that enough for the both of us as you have so clearly demonstrated so I'm not really bothered. I hope this is a front you're putting up online because you sound incredibly self absorbed.
IIN that I want to permanently deny sex to my husband?
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I've just read through this post and your comments and speaking woman to woman, you, OP, sound awful. You say this man loves you but you only married him because you wouldn't have to worry about cheating and you're on here shit talking the man who loves you when he appears to have done nothing to deserve it. You're worried about him cheating yet you actively thought of other people during sex which isn't exactly being faithful. Plus you're cutting sex down to twice a year for no real reason. But you don't want him to cheat? Situations like this are part of the reason hookers are still in business. You say you feel used during sex yet you literally picked this guy for your own selfish reasons, not because you love him. This is all so hypocritical in so many ways. When two people get married, sex is generally part of the deal unless stated otherwise from the beginning. If he's being manipulative or aggressive about it, this would make more sense but you haven't said that. Withholding sex isn't going to make anyone docile or compliant and why would you want him to be like that? What kind of household are you running? I'm sure he could do much better and you clearly have some questions about your sexuality that you should probably explore. Divorce the poor guy and set him and yourself free.
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I am exactly where I want to be - the mother of a happy family with a man that is a good father, and who understands team work and partnership to attain mutual goals.
Yes, I know that hookers are in business because of these situations, but there are no hookers that accept money from scar-face men. It is laughable that a hooker would have that much compassion. Anyway, he has his porn magazines.
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Not that it really matters, most hookers aren't that picky. If you've got the cash they won't care. They've seen it all. I seriously doubt his scars are that bad, but even if they are, you are not his only chance at a family. There are billions of women out there. Not all of them are as shallow as you. Some people love others for who they are, not what they look like. If this was your attempt to convince me that you aren't as awful as your original post came across, you've failed. Like I said originally, divorce the poor guy.
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It doesn't sound very happy. Kids are better off with divorced parents who are able to go on to happier relationships than parents who are only together because it's convenient.
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Just because you want to have sex everyday doesn't mean those women who don't are unhappy. Because of my husband's appearance, this will be his only relationship. I am quite satisfied having sex twice a year.
Your advice shows that you simply cannot think past your own situation.
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You sound like the one who cant think past their own situation, you sound like a horrible person imo.
You're the one who is so hung up on physical appearances that you cannot fathom that someone else could possibly be interested in your husband for who he is. You're so convinced that you are his only chance at a relationship and your delusion is very very sad. We're not talking about me. I've never once reference my own situation, nor did I claim I want to have sex everyday (but would that really be such a crime?) nor is this entirely about sex. It's about your very selfish outlook on a situation that concerns more than you. If you would read my responses, you'd see that I'm not talking about your happiness, since you're concerned about that enough for the both of us as you have so clearly demonstrated so I'm not really bothered. I hope this is a front you're putting up online because you sound incredibly self absorbed.