You two absolutely need counseling. It sounds like the intimacy just isn't there. Giving up and just not having sex is the cop out option and things won't get better from there, instead I think you should go to counseling to work out whatever makes you feel used by him after sex. It's more work, but you'll both be happier
IIN that I want to permanently deny sex to my husband?
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You two absolutely need counseling. It sounds like the intimacy just isn't there. Giving up and just not having sex is the cop out option and things won't get better from there, instead I think you should go to counseling to work out whatever makes you feel used by him after sex. It's more work, but you'll both be happier