It's a no-brainer. Women can't give you a family. With no family, a long term lesbian relationship would be very unfulfilling. This means that a woman must learn to tolerate men sexually to have children.
Anyway, I want a happy family which means there are two involved parents that view their role as a partnership. I also don't think I am a true lesbian because touching women in real life feels creepy.
Yes, but no. You might just still think it feels "creepy" because you have been culturally conditioned against it. You say you have to "tolerate" men sexually, no straight woman would say that they have to "tolerate" men. You obviously must be a lesbian if you do not like men and are into daydreaming a lot about women.
I thought you said you would fantasize about women during sex which was what made me think you were probably a lesbian. I guess you just aren't really attracted to anybody but find women somehow slightly more tolerable
You should leave him though still, maybe marriage and relationships just is not something your interested in. Someday, you'll probably find a guy, or more likely gal that you connect with though
That's fine in the future when our kids are in their late teens. But, I can't destroy a happy family when my kids are young. What's wrong with everybody? Don't they have any respect for good committed parenting in a warm supportive environment? Don't you see the damage a divorce has on boys when they lose a healthy role model?
You people need to quit being so damn subservient to your own desires. My husband would agree with this.
IIN that I want to permanently deny sex to my husband?
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It's a no-brainer. Women can't give you a family. With no family, a long term lesbian relationship would be very unfulfilling. This means that a woman must learn to tolerate men sexually to have children.
Anyway, I want a happy family which means there are two involved parents that view their role as a partnership. I also don't think I am a true lesbian because touching women in real life feels creepy.
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Yes, but no. You might just still think it feels "creepy" because you have been culturally conditioned against it. You say you have to "tolerate" men sexually, no straight woman would say that they have to "tolerate" men. You obviously must be a lesbian if you do not like men and are into daydreaming a lot about women.
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I do not daydream about men, or women, or sex.
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I thought you said you would fantasize about women during sex which was what made me think you were probably a lesbian. I guess you just aren't really attracted to anybody but find women somehow slightly more tolerable
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Exactly.
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You should leave him though still, maybe marriage and relationships just is not something your interested in. Someday, you'll probably find a guy, or more likely gal that you connect with though
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That's fine in the future when our kids are in their late teens. But, I can't destroy a happy family when my kids are young. What's wrong with everybody? Don't they have any respect for good committed parenting in a warm supportive environment? Don't you see the damage a divorce has on boys when they lose a healthy role model?
You people need to quit being so damn subservient to your own desires. My husband would agree with this.
I see. Very confusing for you. I don't have any further advice.