You guys need to see a marriage counselor. If you're feeling used by him, I can guarantee you that it is not relating to sex. Being that you are able to control the sex, you are exercising some control over the relationship that you might be lacking in another aspect of the relationship. Your Mother's advice is only advocating that you ignore important issues. I've never seen a happy couple in which one or both partners made themselves so sexually unavailable.
IIN that I want to permanently deny sex to my husband?
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You guys need to see a marriage counselor. If you're feeling used by him, I can guarantee you that it is not relating to sex. Being that you are able to control the sex, you are exercising some control over the relationship that you might be lacking in another aspect of the relationship. Your Mother's advice is only advocating that you ignore important issues. I've never seen a happy couple in which one or both partners made themselves so sexually unavailable.