As we are raised and I, like you, had the divorced parents and to try and figure out who was lieing their ass off to us kids. Growing up many kids are more in tune with the things happening between parents. The arguements, fights, the "almost a bar room brawls", and afterawhile or years of it we can see who is manipulating who. And we just get fed up. So our minds tend to take over telling us this story, if you will, about things would be si much easier without that parent. Now the reality, maybe your dad is not emotionaly able to define and show his love for you and is angry inside at himself if he feels he has made errors in communication, or just hasnt been there for you as much as he feels he should have been. But in reality, dont throw your life away because he cant or wont or doesnt want to communicate in a civil manner. Dont let him win by playing you and your emotions. Talk to a school counselor or teacher you trust or even your mom. I have a nephew who is just like his dad, and my brother is just like our dad was, etc. (He was my stepdad). To tell them they are just like their dad, your asking for an ass kickin, but its the truth. My nephew actually has gotten so mad he told his mom about thoughts like yours. In the 2nd bad boys movie with will smith, wooo saaaw, their way of calming down. They say that like a meditation thing.
well most of the fighting went on with my dad and stepmom. they were happy for like 10 years and then things went to shit. they started doing things without each other and all that jazz. I had a stepsister whom i was very close to and she stopped talking to me. So my father and stepmom got divorced and then a year later got back together again. This lasted for a while before they got divorced again. Then they started dating and breaking up and all this went on for a while and i just got sick of it. When they werent together my dad is saying bad things about her and stuff and it made me want to sew his mouth shut. But when they were together he was always saying good things about her and i was just fucking done. I think all of this just made me question everyone and everything.
The lies, manipulation, talking about them when the SO is not around, but when SO is around, they want to make everyone around them think "they are doing so well, that couples therapy must really work". Yea right, Its all for show, "dont dare let the neighbors know I got laid off or fired, the house in foreclosure, the wife is wanting divorce, and of all the shit, my dog is pregnant, my dog- fred." People get so hung up on "status, position, and the real obvious way they cant be discrete and cannot fiñd a way, no matter how hard they try not to, they are judgmental:: pricks taking any shot they can in an attempt to be able to "one up" everone in there social circle.
Is It Normal that i want to murder my father
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As we are raised and I, like you, had the divorced parents and to try and figure out who was lieing their ass off to us kids. Growing up many kids are more in tune with the things happening between parents. The arguements, fights, the "almost a bar room brawls", and afterawhile or years of it we can see who is manipulating who. And we just get fed up. So our minds tend to take over telling us this story, if you will, about things would be si much easier without that parent. Now the reality, maybe your dad is not emotionaly able to define and show his love for you and is angry inside at himself if he feels he has made errors in communication, or just hasnt been there for you as much as he feels he should have been. But in reality, dont throw your life away because he cant or wont or doesnt want to communicate in a civil manner. Dont let him win by playing you and your emotions. Talk to a school counselor or teacher you trust or even your mom. I have a nephew who is just like his dad, and my brother is just like our dad was, etc. (He was my stepdad). To tell them they are just like their dad, your asking for an ass kickin, but its the truth. My nephew actually has gotten so mad he told his mom about thoughts like yours. In the 2nd bad boys movie with will smith, wooo saaaw, their way of calming down. They say that like a meditation thing.
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well most of the fighting went on with my dad and stepmom. they were happy for like 10 years and then things went to shit. they started doing things without each other and all that jazz. I had a stepsister whom i was very close to and she stopped talking to me. So my father and stepmom got divorced and then a year later got back together again. This lasted for a while before they got divorced again. Then they started dating and breaking up and all this went on for a while and i just got sick of it. When they werent together my dad is saying bad things about her and stuff and it made me want to sew his mouth shut. But when they were together he was always saying good things about her and i was just fucking done. I think all of this just made me question everyone and everything.
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The lies, manipulation, talking about them when the SO is not around, but when SO is around, they want to make everyone around them think "they are doing so well, that couples therapy must really work". Yea right, Its all for show, "dont dare let the neighbors know I got laid off or fired, the house in foreclosure, the wife is wanting divorce, and of all the shit, my dog is pregnant, my dog- fred." People get so hung up on "status, position, and the real obvious way they cant be discrete and cannot fiñd a way, no matter how hard they try not to, they are judgmental:: pricks taking any shot they can in an attempt to be able to "one up" everone in there social circle.