Is it normal that i want to meet my new grandma

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So, my grandpa and grandma were together, but a few months ago my grandma found out that my grandpa cheated on her with a woman from thailand (where he regular went on vacation), she is younger (45) than my grandpa(69) and he claims to be in love with her. after all the drama we (me and my dad nd mom) decided to go on vacation (just on break, not because of them). We are in thailand now and my grandma is mad at us for going here because she thinks we are going to see his new girlfriend, what we werent planned to.
Today we received a call from my grandpa and he said that he'd be here next week, and i want to see him of course because he will stay here for 9 months and i wont see him so long. But there's one PROBLEM, his new gf is going to pick him up from the airport and if we are going to meet him, she'll be there too... If we do meet her, my grandma will get mad because we met her. But i think my grandma is mad at us anyway now, so why wouldnt we meet her ? My mom says, what if she wants to make up ? She would be in her right then because we promised not to meet his new gf.. But after everything: im so curious who this woman is and what shes like and all.. I want to meet her.. But i dont want to lose my grandma.. Shes always been there for me u know.. So Should we meet my grandpas new gf or not?? Thanks for helping me with my dilemma.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    Curiosity is normal as is the rest of your reasoning

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  • bluesun
    12 years ago | pl

    "Is it normal that i want to meet my new grandma "
    she is your grandma how can she be NEW lol. just playing wit you.

    no don't meet her, you promised and you should keep it.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago | pl

    I would think you guys would have some common courtesy or respect by not meeting this women until your grandpa brings her back or until your grandma will be over the grief.

    Your grandmother is hurting and all you guys can think about is meeting a new women?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago | pl

    You can meet her if she's there but you don't have to speak to her or be friendly if you think that would be disloyal. Anyway, this is an adult problem that your parents should work out. One thing's for sure - you've just learnt a valuable lesson about men, no matter what their age!

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  • jellytoes
    12 years ago | pl

    I would say if u promised her not to then probably not because if she's mad at y'all now u probably don't want to make her even madder but if u try to explain to her that u want to see ur grandfather and if shes there it's not talks fault maybe that can b a way for u to meet her idk

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