Yes it's normal but I think most gay people would agree that being gay is not a choice. It's understandable that you want to have the "picture perfect family" that everyone dreams of and that the media portrays, but that mold does not fit every person. Instead of thinking logically you need to think emotionally. Could you be happy with a wife? Would she be able to fulfil your every need? If not, there's no reason to hide behind the facade. It is about quality of life, please don't only think of all the negative things you will have to endure, but rather the positive things you will gain by spending your life with your soul mate! If you find your soul mate in a woman, then fine, but if it is a man, don't be afraid of that! We are coming into a much more accepting time. I know it's a hard life, but it was way harder for the people who did it before you and I am willing to bet that most of them do not regret being who they are. Nothing is harder than trying to force fit yourself into this idea of perfection that society has! Live a happy life and do the things that make YOU happy, cause at the end of it all, you die alone! :) good luck!
Is it normal that I want to marry a woman when I've been with men
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Yes it's normal but I think most gay people would agree that being gay is not a choice. It's understandable that you want to have the "picture perfect family" that everyone dreams of and that the media portrays, but that mold does not fit every person. Instead of thinking logically you need to think emotionally. Could you be happy with a wife? Would she be able to fulfil your every need? If not, there's no reason to hide behind the facade. It is about quality of life, please don't only think of all the negative things you will have to endure, but rather the positive things you will gain by spending your life with your soul mate! If you find your soul mate in a woman, then fine, but if it is a man, don't be afraid of that! We are coming into a much more accepting time. I know it's a hard life, but it was way harder for the people who did it before you and I am willing to bet that most of them do not regret being who they are. Nothing is harder than trying to force fit yourself into this idea of perfection that society has! Live a happy life and do the things that make YOU happy, cause at the end of it all, you die alone! :) good luck!