Is it normal that i want to lose my virginity in the dark?

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yes. i'm a virgin. and idk why but i feel light losing it with the lights on would be way too awkward, so i want to do it in the dark. normal?

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    A paper bag over your face should be plenty dark

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    • melissa0511
      10 years ago | pl

      aww look at you. trolling mad people online. you're SO cool, lol nah, get a life retard.

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      • dom180
        10 years ago | pl

        Reminder: don't take *anything* too seriously :P

        It seems normal to me, especially if you're self-conscious about your body. Having sex with the lights on is a really good way of opening yourself up to each other though, because you get to see them clearly as well as them seeing you. It's certainly normal to feel more comfortable with the thought of doing it in the dark though.

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        • melissa0511
          10 years ago | pl

          i'm not self conscious about my body, i just think it would be a great experience for my first time, lol.

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  • Sketcher18
    10 years ago | pl

    Sure, whatever you want.
    If that person has a big problem with you wanting to do it in the dark, then they aren't right for you.

    I don't plan on losing my virginity (It's my choice.),
    but if I ever change my mind, then I would probably want to do it in the dark too.

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    • melissa0511
      10 years ago | pl

      ...you plan to die a virgin?

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      • Sketcher18
        10 years ago | pl

        Well, if I do, then there's nothing really wrong with that. I mean, it's not like losing your virginity is actually a required thing in life.

        *Shrugs*

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        • GoraIntoDesiGals
          10 years ago | pl

          but you're missing out. Sex feels very nice. Oh well your loss...

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          • Sketcher18
            10 years ago | pl

            I don't feel like I'm really missing out on anything.
            I have more important things to do.
            If you enjoy sex, then fine, that's great,
            but not everybody should be expected to want it.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago | pl

    I voted you can lose your virginity to me, because hell why not.

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  • robertarauza
    9 years ago | pl

    Me and my girlfriend had anal sex in the dark we went under blankets

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  • 69
    10 years ago | pl

    idk it's really hard to find stuff you lose it in the dark

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago | pl

    I like to see a girl's anatomy too much to do it in the dark. Maybe for the LOLs if I've already seen her?

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  • cobyjack
    10 years ago | pl

    What about dimming the lights?

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