Wow. I think I'm the only one who doesn't think cheating is the end of the world. I don't think I would ever do it, but people cheat for many reasons. Usually because they are unhappy. It would be better if they broke up with their partner first, but life isn't so simple as that.
i get what your saying,but i cant help it it's way too late for me to go back to being the person i was before that traumatizing moment when my whole world was turned upside down,even if i did not know it at the time.
You ned to move past the trauma. I bet your parents were deeply unhappy beforw that event. It is a shame you had to witness that and it is likely you would have been traumatized if you caught your parents having sex with each other. But imagine what staying together in a miserable marriage would do to you. Wishing death on people, women specifically, is the wrong way to seek solace for your issues.
yeah i get u,but like i said in the comments above i cant just stop this,I've been like this for years now.but little by little to try and get past this.Wish me luck:)
P.S. I did see my parents having sex one time,but that story is for another time my friend.and i know that they were probably unhappy but it just messed me up as a kid,man/woman
thx 4 trying 2 help tho :)
Did you not want help? Or are you seeking justification for your feelings? It's okay to be angry. But it isn't okay to judge others for actions that are none of your business.
And others are judging OP for his opinion. Why don't you tell them what you told the OP in the name of fairness, since you want to be a moral compass apparently.
yeah i wanted help in a way,i guess.I mean i just kind of wanted something to tip the scales a bit or push me over the edge of seeking help for myself.but yeah i get that its not any of my business,but i just cant help it u know.but i was just saying is that i cant just stop thinking about this on the spot its going to take time,to become i guess normal enough to not keep thinking about this and being angry about it all the time,but i get what your saying dude is that i shouldn't just want to take someones life because of something that's none of my business and does not affect my life directly.but i just cant help it,i just get so angry when i see a girl cheating on someone(and yeah i know i'm probably going to get some hate for this)but if i had a choice i would kill a cheating female instead of a guy,most likely because of my what my mom did,but yeah sorry 4 this rant.thx 4 listening!
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IIN That i want to kill women who cheat on their boyfriend/husband?
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Wow. I think I'm the only one who doesn't think cheating is the end of the world. I don't think I would ever do it, but people cheat for many reasons. Usually because they are unhappy. It would be better if they broke up with their partner first, but life isn't so simple as that.
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i get what your saying,but i cant help it it's way too late for me to go back to being the person i was before that traumatizing moment when my whole world was turned upside down,even if i did not know it at the time.
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You ned to move past the trauma. I bet your parents were deeply unhappy beforw that event. It is a shame you had to witness that and it is likely you would have been traumatized if you caught your parents having sex with each other. But imagine what staying together in a miserable marriage would do to you. Wishing death on people, women specifically, is the wrong way to seek solace for your issues.
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yeah i get u,but like i said in the comments above i cant just stop this,I've been like this for years now.but little by little to try and get past this.Wish me luck:)
P.S. I did see my parents having sex one time,but that story is for another time my friend.and i know that they were probably unhappy but it just messed me up as a kid,man/woman
thx 4 trying 2 help tho :)
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And others are judging OP for his opinion. Why don't you tell them what you told the OP in the name of fairness, since you want to be a moral compass apparently.
yeah i wanted help in a way,i guess.I mean i just kind of wanted something to tip the scales a bit or push me over the edge of seeking help for myself.but yeah i get that its not any of my business,but i just cant help it u know.but i was just saying is that i cant just stop thinking about this on the spot its going to take time,to become i guess normal enough to not keep thinking about this and being angry about it all the time,but i get what your saying dude is that i shouldn't just want to take someones life because of something that's none of my business and does not affect my life directly.but i just cant help it,i just get so angry when i see a girl cheating on someone(and yeah i know i'm probably going to get some hate for this)but if i had a choice i would kill a cheating female instead of a guy,most likely because of my what my mom did,but yeah sorry 4 this rant.thx 4 listening!
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