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I am not good talking to ladies, but the most importaint thing for me is to keep them happy, and when i see men who makes girls cry intentionally i want to hit them, is this normal?
Violence is never the answer. Otherwise, we'd have to punch all girls who hurt men (and that's something I wouldn't like to happen)
Why?
She'd only end up getting pissed off at you, running to his side, dressing his wounds and comforting him while all the while being pissed off at you for hitting her man. Then he just continues being a dick to her as she stays faithfully by his side, even more so now that the world is being so evil to him, "he needs me now more than ever".
And some women just think that they deserve constant pain, that it's normal to be miserable with who you're with sometimes, with sometimes being defined as 97% of the time. "But he's great the other 3%" or "he has some really good qualities" or "He's changed a lot since we've been together". I've heard so many women say that that I am more likely to hit THEM for staying with the assholes. There literally are plenty more fish in the sea and I can almost guarantee every woman could find a man that would make her happy 97% of the time if she just had the confidence to be a single player on the field long enough and to broaden her standards a bit.
So yeah, it's normal. But ask yourself... what's the greater evil here? The man being an asshole, or this woman letting herself be a victim? In the end, it's not about the man. It's about what happens when someone allows themselves to become dependent on someone who could care less for you. It's about low self-worth, and forgetting that you're better than this.
it's normal.
i have to admit though that often i also want to hit the girls for not changing their preferred type of partner. I kind of stopped talking to a former friend when she was utterly devasted for the third time in half a year about "what an asshole" that guy was, when all three of them were basically the EXACT same type of person. 2 even knew each other. still went in there. Without even expecting things to go the same way...again.
Thats a big problem in todays sosiety, we have jerks that get all the girls, and the guys like me who respect women are left behind, and i mean if i made a girl cry, i would ask someone to hit me as hard as they can.
it's not just about jerks.
sorry if that sounds rude, but your emphasis on respect and putting them first together with your "left behind" makes it sound like you'll be friendzoned.
It's nice to have the option, but if i want a talk, i'll call my friends.
So ya, total jerks is aweful, but total opposite is also not good. That's meant as advice. Think about a girl, most guys wouldn't want a TOTAL slut, and neither would most guys want a TOTAL prude. It's striking a balance that adds spice to a character.
If i feel even slightly that a guy will be clingy, desparate, try to be my best friend, etc...i'll quickly lose all interest.
Again: I'm not trying to come on to you in a bad way here, i dislike those extreme jerks all the same, but unfortunately there's a reason beyond pure stupidity as to WHY they get many girls. Sorry if i can't explain better.
You are a person of my heart, you correct me in a polite way, i am not as i write in person, i am a little rude and mean, i curse far more than the average, but if you are my friend, i show my true feelings for the person.
i have a lot of spice, to say it that way, and i can be entertaining ro be with, i am like youre friend with no worries, but if you want to talk serius i can be that person to.
I just say i feel like they need to realise they can destroy so much with so few words, i know this because i was bullied when i was smaller, i am a male but i know how painfull those tears are, and the pain of a punch can never even get close to the pain in youre heart when boys make a girl really sad.
So guys should get hit because women cry? What? Girls cry over multiple stupid things. What about the girls that hit their male partner, hmm?
Women cry far more easily than men, that's not the man's fault, it's theirs. If she doesn't want put in such a situation, then she should remove herself from sucha situation.
Maybe, that is just one of my traits.
I dont realy know how to talk to girls and since i have ADHD(google is your friend) i get realy hype and talk alot off noncense, im 76in inches with orange hair.
And if you see my face its something you remember.
Basicly, you should take some of my traits, not all.
Abusers of women tend to be "narcs". Get in a jerks face for making a girl cry, it will not end well for you at all. And then he'll take it out on her just for the "trouble" she caused.
Remember all bullies are cowards. But it's not true, they're brave cause they're strong!!!
Yes it's normal. Everyone needs to hit someone occasionally. Sorry pacifists, but it's true. We're primates - hitting people is in our DNA.
No its normal. Violance is the answer. Sometimes you need to put a bitch in her place. Because if you do everything the girl says all the time then she will step all over you like she is your master.
It's normal to want to punish people that do mean things. OBVIOUSLY.
Judging by the responses here, you'd think that all women want is a man who's shining characteristic is that they hit other men because they hurt a girl's feelings. What a sad world that'd be if it were true...
Wow if you do that, then you probably won't have to be good at talking to ladies to get one to swoon over you!
Thank you, i think.
Its wierd that me, who has only one female friend(a good friend, just to brag) would be so respectful about women, but i try my best to be as nice as i can be.
I saw youre proile, youre the only one who thinks the same as me when it comes to that song.