Is it normal that i want to have sex with someone other than my husban

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I have been married for 3 years and I am happy but, lately I have been thinking about having affairs with other men just for sex. I don't think that it is normal to have sex with one person for the rest of my life even though I want to spend the rest of my life with them. Dont get me wrong sex with my husband is GREAT. But the thrill of something new gets me so excited. I even pretend my husband is someone else sometimes. Is this strange and I don't know what to so about these urges. They have not been acted on but I'm getting closer and closer to the line that if I have the chance I might take it. Help Please? Am I the only one who feels this way?

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Based on 52 votes (43 yes)
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  • divoon
    10 years ago

    i think you shoult talk to your husban

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  • mystlyn
    11 years ago

    If it isn't normal then I must be abnormal also.

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  • crazyarab
    12 years ago

    That's not normal . Idk how can you look at your husband or sleep next to him. My advice stop thinking like that and if u cant then be a good wife and tell him how you feel .

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Sorry but it's true. Screwing around on your boyfriend makes you disgusting and whorish.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Who said anything about screwing around on boyfriends? We're talking about screwing around on husbands. That's perfectly acceptable.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Normal and not whorish. But the real question is are you bored with the sex or bored with the husband. If you're bored with the husband, talk to your husband and get it out or get out of the marriage.

    If it's just the sex, which is what it sounds like, meet another guy and have sex. The important thing is to practice safe sex and sleep with different guys, or better yet, more than one guy at the same time. That is actually good for your marriage because that way you never get attached to just one guy, and it's a lot of fun.

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  • 54chimes
    13 years ago

    If you can, talk to your husband about your desires. Don't go behind his back. That will destroy your marrige. Perhaps the idea of sharing with a friend or another couple is a way the two of you can go. What ever you do, do it together. Talking with your husband may surprise you. He may want to see you with other men. Then again, he may want to be with other women. Are you OK with that?

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Why does anyone bother getting married?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    ^ spoken by a true whore.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      What a constructive comment.

      and learn to use the reply button.

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