I thought it was bad having a teenager like this but a fully grown man!!
Can you not just explain to him that it is downright rude to ignore you or others when he is playing his little games? My initial response would be - Grow up!!!
Try limiting his time to 8pm-11pm after dinner and he has helped you with things around the house. The world doesn't stop coz he has, there is still various bits of paperwork to do etc that you may need him to complete.
Either that or let him get on with it and get out there and have some fun. Find a new life with someone else and then jump ship.
He has this schedule where 8-11 infront of his desktop then goes to bed play his phone same thing. He doesn't see the problem but i do, I feel and i am suffering.
If you're sleeping in the same bed - tell him to get to sleep! If he won't, tell him to go into another room / sofa to play his wee games.
He's very lucky he's not with me or his phone would hit the fukn wall.
He needs to see consequences for his neglect of you - please tell me you have no kids!
So, I wouldn't bring him a coffee in those 3 hours, if he's not a DIYer you could flick the trip for the electric ring main and cut the computer off. Don't do any housework during those hours that he has down time or any of his laundry. One day he will have to learn to take time out and pull his weight.
Why don't you go out every night and come home laughing about the time you're having with your friends or at the weekend come home half drunk! He might just get scared of what you are up to.
Don't waste your life watching him waste his!
Get out and enjoy yourself!
Is it normal that I want to give away my husband?
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I thought it was bad having a teenager like this but a fully grown man!!
Can you not just explain to him that it is downright rude to ignore you or others when he is playing his little games? My initial response would be - Grow up!!!
Try limiting his time to 8pm-11pm after dinner and he has helped you with things around the house. The world doesn't stop coz he has, there is still various bits of paperwork to do etc that you may need him to complete.
Either that or let him get on with it and get out there and have some fun. Find a new life with someone else and then jump ship.
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He has this schedule where 8-11 infront of his desktop then goes to bed play his phone same thing. He doesn't see the problem but i do, I feel and i am suffering.
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So 3 hours a night is not enough?!
If you're sleeping in the same bed - tell him to get to sleep! If he won't, tell him to go into another room / sofa to play his wee games.
He's very lucky he's not with me or his phone would hit the fukn wall.
He needs to see consequences for his neglect of you - please tell me you have no kids!
So, I wouldn't bring him a coffee in those 3 hours, if he's not a DIYer you could flick the trip for the electric ring main and cut the computer off. Don't do any housework during those hours that he has down time or any of his laundry. One day he will have to learn to take time out and pull his weight.
Why don't you go out every night and come home laughing about the time you're having with your friends or at the weekend come home half drunk! He might just get scared of what you are up to.
Don't waste your life watching him waste his!
Get out and enjoy yourself!