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I am slightly insecure because i lost my best friend to a new girl last year and i have a slight suspicion my best friend doesnt like me as much as i like her. I have a wierd feeling that i want to get injured so people with sympathise with me and worry about me and want to see me. Is it normal?
Maybe try putting your hands in a blender - so you can't type anymore ? If not just get a crack habbit.
Generally, it's not normal to want to be injured. However, in a situation where you feel rejected, it is normal to want to somehow get approval or love from the person that seems to have rejected you. Your thinking is that if something happened to you, attention would turn to you. People would care about you. You would be the star of the show, once again.
I will say to you that in life you will probably lose many friends as the years go by. Some of them best friends. Some friends that you thought would never leave you. But there will always be friends, or even just one friend for a time, that won't leave you and will be there for you. It might not be the same person for a lifetime, good friends are rare these days, but it might be different people being a good or "best" friend to you at different times in your life. The only thing you can do, is be always be a good friend to those that are deserving of your friendship.