Is it normal that i want to be with someone that's gay?

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I have loved someone for almost 3 years now. A few months ago, he built up the courage to tell me that he liked guys but he still loved me. Most people would end the relationship, but I love him so much that it doesn't matter to me. He's very confused and decided to break up with me. He needs to figure himself out first before he gets into any sort or relationship. It made me care about him even more because I always worried that if he was gay, he'd never tell me. If I try and move on, I will still be unhappy because there is nobody I feel stronger about than him. It's going to be his decision if we end up together or not. Should I still fight for him, or should I just let him go?

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  • peterr
    9 years ago | pl

    I love gay men but I am a guy. They really appreciate when you knock some gaybasher out cold in their defense. I have gotten sucked off a couple of times by gay guys and I loved it. Nobody knows how to suck a cock like a man.

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  • kevrltr
    11 years ago | pl

    You need to step back a little for yourself.
    Love him, support him even encourage him, but don't spend friday Saturday or Sunday with him.

    Go out with other friends or dates. (He's just not that into you)
    Good luck.

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  • Inspector019
    11 years ago | pl

    Well, you can't pray or love the gay away. People are, who they are. The best thing you can do for both of you is accept that bit of knowledge as an unchanging truth. Sometimes to be a good friend, you have to be selfless, and just do what is best for you both even when your emotions tell you otherwise. You will love again, despite what you feel like now. Don't risk losing a good friend over something that you will never be able to change. Be supportive and start looking elsewhere before you miss out on what is right for you. Good luck.

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    • foziechatterbox
      11 years ago | pl

      Thank you. Means a lot. Its just really hard to be friends when all I want is to be with him. But I'm working on it. Hopefully I will feel the same about someone else one day, but it won't be anytime soon.

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  • najumm2025
    7 years ago | pl

    Omg yes its totally normal to be with someone whose gay I mean they're so much hotter when they're gay aren't they? I mean that's just a fact of life everyone should accept. If he's not all about guys then yeah love him andconfort him and tell him everything will work out fine and don't make him feel like hed be doing something so wrong if he chose a guy over you. Make him feel good about himself and make his decision easier for him and assure him you'll always be there No matter what

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  • FunkyHuskyCoolGirlYuki
    10 years ago | pl

    Look Up "Gay Boyfriend" by the Hazzards on YouTube. Fits perfectly.

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  • Geldsmaggen
    11 years ago | pl

    If he's gay, he's gay, just be his friend.

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  • foziechatterbox
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes I know, I love him dearly so I will stay as close to him as I can. I wont leave him alone with his problems.

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