Is it normal that i want to be with someone but i just can't?

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I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. I thought that was real and forever, but things were a lot different than I thought. I still think about him and everything what happened all the time, but I'm completely sure I don't want to be with him ever again and my life is getting better since I'm single.
Anyway, problem is: I can't be with anyone. I want to but I just can't. Not physically, not emotionally. I have a huge problem to see anyone in sexual way and if someone sees me I just want to get away and start to feel like that is too much for me even nothing happened.
I've never had any problem like that before and I just want to dissapear.

Is It Normal?
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  • Anime7
    11 years ago | pl

    This is normal. Break ups are a rough time and not everyone is ready to "play the field" afterwards. Just give yourself some space from love and enjoy your life. Give it time and once you're comfortable enough, try to find love again.

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  • Ibelievethis
    11 years ago | pl

    I know that this may come across as insensitive but I think that you should count yourself very lucky at least you have had this persons love and noone can ever take that away from you. There are many people who have to live with heartache of never being with the person that they want to be with. It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. xx

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  • Abnormallynormal
    11 years ago | pl

    Relationships are like mining for diamonds...sometimes you get coal and sometime a diamond. But dont stop diggin!

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  • moke64916
    11 years ago | pl

    Normal. I have dated plenty of woman, but now I choose not to date any. I could be, but I choose not to. Instead I am working on myself growing as a person. It's true that relationships are bound to have drama. The way you feel around other guys is because of your past history with men. That simple.

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