Is it normal that i want to be submissive?

I'm 32f from AZ . For almost a year now I've been wanting to be in a sub/dom relationship. I want every aspect of my sexuality controlled. I want to be a slut but have yet to act on it. I want to try everything there is to try. If you have any advice or thoughts please leave a comment or pm me.

Is It Normal?
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  • You can see how helpful this bunch is and hard to send a message if we don't know who you are. I think I know a idea to help you but I'm not saying it for these guys to rip apart I really want to be helpful they just think there funny. If you want you can message me so they don't know who you are.

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    • I wrote this. Feel free to message me

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    • I don't think anyone so far is being unhelpful and some have been helpful

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      • I guess we see things differently. Taking out a ad on motherless is a bad idea. Offering anal sex in a vulgar way unhelpful. We should hook up and play very helpful there. Be less degenerate super helpful. But go ahead and criticize my actually helpful attempt. Oh and Ellenna wasn't bad either but on average the answers have not been something that will help her. I know a way she might actually get what she wants in a safe and consensual way so I must need to be called out.

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  • It is very normal, many people have this feeling, some not as strong, but many same as you.

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  • I am a guy and many times I have wanted to be submissive too, so normal.

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  • Be less degenerate.

    How's that for controlling your sexuality?

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  • Be very careful who you play with and how. A lot of dominants end up with the power going to their heads and taking it much further than the sub wants or has consented to

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  • I think that's a pretty common fantasy for women. I certainly enjoy the thought of controlling a woman in the ways you describe. Are you a professional person with a lot of responsibility? Often people with high pressure jobs find being controlled sexually to be a great way of relaxing and letting go of stress. We should hook up and play.

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  • Most women I have been involved with have liked being submissive to varying degrees and to be dominated in bed. And I like playing the dominant role (up to a point).

    It sounds like you might be towards the far end of that spectrum.

    Have a safeword if you're indulging in certain kinds of play.

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  • everyone has something they're interested in and this just happens to be the thing that you're interested in personally so it's perfectly normal

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  • too be Very Honest I don't think it's Normal but it sure is Ok. My idea of a woman being Submissive is I Start Sex by Eating pussy then the Woman can do what ever She wants.

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  • The relationship you desire is not a short term commitment. You don't mention your current relationship status but to achieve the outcome you seek requires time, trust and dedication. Being someone's slut is very different to entering a committed sub/dom relationship. What do you really want?

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  • <a href="http://Fetlife.com" rel="nofollow">Fetlife.com</a>

    Indulge yourself. You won't be sorry. Be safe.

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  • Take out an ad on Motherless. People there ask for that kind of shit all the time.

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  • Do you like COCKS up your ass and then down your throat unwashed ?

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