Is it normal that i want to be dominate my first time?

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I am still a virgin and long story short I want it BAD.
I would prefer for my first time to be with an older guy who lets me be in charge. I want him blindfolded and beneath me and I want it slightly rough.
it might sound crazy but I see myself being more on the submissive side and letting the guy be in control every other time after that.
I'm nineteen by the way.
So is this normal?

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Based on 37 votes (31 yes)
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  • Chut
    7 years ago

    Yes if u want to enjoy the most wild sex thn have sex with a married old guy 40+. Those guys are hungry for a new young pussy. They want dirty. They will lick u like anything.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Ew

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Normal, but the word is dominant, not dominate, that's what you'd be doing, not being if you get what I mean.

    Many men would love to do what you're suggesting, so good luck with finding someone

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yeah, gotcha. & I realized that too, but didn't edit :)

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  • matches
    7 years ago

    I am male I would love to have this done to me. When I was growing up a girl did do that to me and she lit kitchen matches near my cock and. Jerked me off. It was my first orgasm

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    You probly shouldn't try it for your first time sounds like a disaster in the making.

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    It's probably going to hurt you your first time... maybe try regular sex?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yeah, I've thought about that which is why I want to be in control so I can 'change the pace' if need be. I just want to try out what I think my preference is.. So I'll know.. But yeah totally not doing too much the first time I just want to be in control and comfortable. I think that's what the blindfold and me being on top is about-me being comfortable enough to try what I want and feel in control of the situation.

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  • FORUMiadableFucker0
    7 years ago

    Not normal because you want to fuck a random old dude and then become a whore who gets used after that. Have some self respect please guys are not trust worthy when it comes to sex and control.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Where did you get "random" and "old" from? I want someone *older as in older than me and I'm nineteen so that could be like 21 or 24. & I never said anything about having sex with a stranger.
      It would be someone I trust..
      Also I never said I would allow myself to be used. I said I am typically/want to be more on the "submissive side" NOT that I want to be someone's submissive. Which simply means id be okay if my partner made most sexual decision (with my agreement of course)
      so not a whore and I do have self respect

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