Is it normal that i want to ask a friend to have sex with me?

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I am 18 and still a Virgin... I had a friend from highschool but now we don't really talk anymore... I know he is attracted to me. Is it normal that i want to ask him to have sex with me? I really want to know how sex feels like! I'm into a guy at the moment but he has a girlfriend... it is always like this, i only like unavailable guys and i don't want to wait until i find somebody i like who is available, it can take years!

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Based on 14 votes (12 yes)
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  • Chaosmuffin
    11 years ago

    He will definitely say yes

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    • OurHotelcalifornia
      11 years ago

      I am not sure about that... We haven't talked in a while

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I'm a girl and once a good friend who was still a virgin asked me for this favour and we did it. It was okay and quite pleasant.

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    • OurHotelcalifornia
      11 years ago

      How was it after? Awkward? Like, what did you say to eachother after?

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      • kelili
        11 years ago

        No, we just continued as we did and often joked about having sex together. But as it was only sex and we did it only once there was no special attachment. Several years has pass since that. Sometimes when he comes we go camping with our college friends and it is just as if we had never done it.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    You are 18 and I am guessing your friend is still a minor. Why can you not find someone to have sex with that is your own age. You know this is a crime right?

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    • OurHotelcalifornia
      11 years ago

      He is not a minor, he is 19

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    You're only 18. Although it feels like it may never happen.... it does.

    If the man you want is already taken, accept that as a sign that he's not the one for you. Cos if he cheats on her with you then he may cheat on you too.

    When it's right for you... it'll fall in place.

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    • OurHotelcalifornia
      11 years ago

      I would never have anything with a guy who is in a relationship! That is just wrong...

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago

        =)

        that's good.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    So long as you understand your relationship with him MAY change, then go ahead :) If your okay with losing your virginity with any old person rather than waiting foe someone you're dating that's fine :)

    Although the phrase "I am 18 and still a Virgin"... Lots of 18 year olds are virgins. A lot of 18 year old non-virgins are actually virgins but are lying about it.

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