Is it normal that i want to argue?

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Okay, so this great guy that I've been with for five months, never argues. I'll do something stupid to try to make him argue with me but he won't. This is the first time I've ever WANTED to argue. When he doesn't it just makes me mad. I don't want to break up with him and I love that I can tell my friends about how we always get along, but for some reason I want to argue. Someone help me please!?

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    Does your family argue about things a lot?
    It could just be the way you were raised.

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  • iceyangel13
    13 years ago

    I've had this problem before. For me though it turned out not that I really wanted to argue but I wanted some sort of feed back. Anytime I did something I thought might make him mad (usually not intentional) and he never said anything I felt like he really didn't care and was lying just to be with me. Talk it over with him, tell him you value his oppinion no matter what it is and that it upsets you he doesnt seem to care about what you do.

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  • happyB
    13 years ago

    My husband and I have been together 11 years and he has never raised his voice to me or even called me a bad name. Ever. I consider myself very lucky to have such a calm and supportive person in my life.
    He is in control of his mind and emotions, and you should cherish that. It enables you to talk things out like humans instead of screaming like apes for no reason.

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    • SassyFrassyLassie_old
      13 years ago

      Well written HappyB!

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  • Psychosocial
    12 years ago

    Seems like most girls I've been with...always gotta argue, even when everythings ok. Let me know why girls do that, when ya figure it out. For what it's worth, sounds like a helluva guy!

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    You're bored. Knock it off.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Thanks for the rude comment. :D

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    He doesn't want to lose you so he is acting supportively.

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