Well, I see it now :) I guess my thought process continued in the lines of his advice "I am pretty sure you know how to turn him" that is why the confusion... Masturbation is fine and it reduces sexual frustration. Sure, it is good advice to do that when he is not in the mood for sex or whenever else. I am not sure how frequent your partner's behaviour and his lack of sexual interest are. If it was an occasional occurence, masturbation might be a sufficient solution. However, if his lack of sexual interest is a daily occurence, masturbation gives you a sexual release but may not help you to feel better in general because the bitterness stemming from his refusal is not likely to go away so easily.
I won't go as far to say I'm as bad off as her. She needs a new partner. My fiance is a little bit of a workaholic and I get tired and go to sleep early, but if we can both do it, we do.
I am glad you are better off than she is.
BTW, I think that she'd better find a new partner as well when she wants to be happy and sexually satisfied in the long run.
IIN that I want sex and my boyfriend won't always give it to me?
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I think he means masturbation. Nothing wrong with it. I do it when my fiance isn't up to the task.
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Well, I see it now :) I guess my thought process continued in the lines of his advice "I am pretty sure you know how to turn him" that is why the confusion... Masturbation is fine and it reduces sexual frustration. Sure, it is good advice to do that when he is not in the mood for sex or whenever else. I am not sure how frequent your partner's behaviour and his lack of sexual interest are. If it was an occasional occurence, masturbation might be a sufficient solution. However, if his lack of sexual interest is a daily occurence, masturbation gives you a sexual release but may not help you to feel better in general because the bitterness stemming from his refusal is not likely to go away so easily.
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I won't go as far to say I'm as bad off as her. She needs a new partner. My fiance is a little bit of a workaholic and I get tired and go to sleep early, but if we can both do it, we do.
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I am glad you are better off than she is.
BTW, I think that she'd better find a new partner as well when she wants to be happy and sexually satisfied in the long run.