"This might be a control thing to build up your urge so when yous do have sex its more pleasurable."
You can't mean this seriously, can you? Nobody sane enough to use a toilet independently wouldn't be so dumb to frustrate their partner so much by refusing them constantly and even by putting a barricade to prevent them from getting to their genitals just to tease them when it obviously has the opposite effect and makes their partner mad and frustrated.
I can, and do mean it seriously. People actually do this. I'm not one of them people, but its not like its non existant. I also said doing it a lot was bad. People that usual do it are in bdsm type relationships.
Doing it in the context of a bdsm relationship is a completely different thing as this kind of treatment (I mean orgasm denial, complete control over the submissive partner and their sexual relief - when to allow them to get off etc.) may fulfill the desires of both partners in such type of relationship. However, it is not likely that the OP is in this kind of relationship if she is troubled by that.
Is it also a completely different thing to tease one's partner and to refuse sex which goes as far as putting up a barricade. Of course, some people tease their partners to build up their urge as a possitive thing for them but not when it has a negative impact on the relatíonship and hurts their partner if they love them.
True. But not every relationship has good communication between partners, like they should. Others don't seperate stuff like that between bdsm and reg relationships, again like they should. So it depends.
IIN that I want sex and my boyfriend won't always give it to me?
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"This might be a control thing to build up your urge so when yous do have sex its more pleasurable."
You can't mean this seriously, can you? Nobody sane enough to use a toilet independently wouldn't be so dumb to frustrate their partner so much by refusing them constantly and even by putting a barricade to prevent them from getting to their genitals just to tease them when it obviously has the opposite effect and makes their partner mad and frustrated.
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I can, and do mean it seriously. People actually do this. I'm not one of them people, but its not like its non existant. I also said doing it a lot was bad. People that usual do it are in bdsm type relationships.
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Doing it in the context of a bdsm relationship is a completely different thing as this kind of treatment (I mean orgasm denial, complete control over the submissive partner and their sexual relief - when to allow them to get off etc.) may fulfill the desires of both partners in such type of relationship. However, it is not likely that the OP is in this kind of relationship if she is troubled by that.
Is it also a completely different thing to tease one's partner and to refuse sex which goes as far as putting up a barricade. Of course, some people tease their partners to build up their urge as a possitive thing for them but not when it has a negative impact on the relatíonship and hurts their partner if they love them.
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True. But not every relationship has good communication between partners, like they should. Others don't seperate stuff like that between bdsm and reg relationships, again like they should. So it depends.