I was in a similar situation in the past as I had much higher sex drive than my previous bf. I also experienced some unbelievably absurd situations when I wanted sex and my previus bf didn't. I guess they would be funny for someone who hasn't gone through this kind of sexual frustration but not that funny for someone who knows what I am talking about...
To answer your poll question about what you could do - well, my answer is not very optimistic. My experience has taught me that the only solution which is successful in the long run is finding a new bf who is sexually compatible with me and has similar sex drive. That is what I finally did and now I am perfectly happy. I have been with my current bf for 5.5 years and our sex life is great. From this persepctive, my past seems to me like a nightmare so I can understand your frustration.
BTW, prasatko suggested good questions you should answer at least to yourself. If his interest in sex with you was all right in the past and declined, the probability that your problem could be solved is not so bad. However, if he has always been like this, I wouldn't expect that the situation will be significantly better in the future.
IIN that I want sex and my boyfriend won't always give it to me?
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I was in a similar situation in the past as I had much higher sex drive than my previous bf. I also experienced some unbelievably absurd situations when I wanted sex and my previus bf didn't. I guess they would be funny for someone who hasn't gone through this kind of sexual frustration but not that funny for someone who knows what I am talking about...
To answer your poll question about what you could do - well, my answer is not very optimistic. My experience has taught me that the only solution which is successful in the long run is finding a new bf who is sexually compatible with me and has similar sex drive. That is what I finally did and now I am perfectly happy. I have been with my current bf for 5.5 years and our sex life is great. From this persepctive, my past seems to me like a nightmare so I can understand your frustration.
BTW, prasatko suggested good questions you should answer at least to yourself. If his interest in sex with you was all right in the past and declined, the probability that your problem could be solved is not so bad. However, if he has always been like this, I wouldn't expect that the situation will be significantly better in the future.