This is somewhat strange, and you should pursue you happiness and fulfillment by whatever means it takes! I am pretty sure you know how to turn him or take the matters into your own hands!
You have no idea what such situation is about. If it was that easy, it wouldn't be such a trouble for the OP. Taking the matter into your own hands? Try to do that to a female who squeals immediately when your hand is about to touch her genital area or who makes a barricade to make sure she is "safe" in case she wasn't alert enough! It is the same.
I am sorry, if you think I did not give your question enough thought. But I tried not to be too direct, and can only give my opinion with what info you submit. You are right, there is no way I can put myself in your place and know how grave your situation is. Sorry, maybe be time for the two of you to seek professional help!
Thanks for your reply. However, I am not the OP :) Fortunately, my sex life is fine these days as I have found my current bf who is sexually compatible with me. My experience with a partner with considerably lower sex drive than mine is from my past. It is great you have never been frustrated so much because of significant sexual incompatibility with any of your partners. I hope that it will never happen to you. Good luck.
Well, I see it now :) I guess my thought process continued in the lines of his advice "I am pretty sure you know how to turn him" that is why the confusion... Masturbation is fine and it reduces sexual frustration. Sure, it is good advice to do that when he is not in the mood for sex or whenever else. I am not sure how frequent your partner's behaviour and his lack of sexual interest are. If it was an occasional occurence, masturbation might be a sufficient solution. However, if his lack of sexual interest is a daily occurence, masturbation gives you a sexual release but may not help you to feel better in general because the bitterness stemming from his refusal is not likely to go away so easily.
I won't go as far to say I'm as bad off as her. She needs a new partner. My fiance is a little bit of a workaholic and I get tired and go to sleep early, but if we can both do it, we do.
I am glad you are better off than she is.
BTW, I think that she'd better find a new partner as well when she wants to be happy and sexually satisfied in the long run.
IIN that I want sex and my boyfriend won't always give it to me?
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This is somewhat strange, and you should pursue you happiness and fulfillment by whatever means it takes! I am pretty sure you know how to turn him or take the matters into your own hands!
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You have no idea what such situation is about. If it was that easy, it wouldn't be such a trouble for the OP. Taking the matter into your own hands? Try to do that to a female who squeals immediately when your hand is about to touch her genital area or who makes a barricade to make sure she is "safe" in case she wasn't alert enough! It is the same.
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I am sorry, if you think I did not give your question enough thought. But I tried not to be too direct, and can only give my opinion with what info you submit. You are right, there is no way I can put myself in your place and know how grave your situation is. Sorry, maybe be time for the two of you to seek professional help!
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Thanks for your reply. However, I am not the OP :) Fortunately, my sex life is fine these days as I have found my current bf who is sexually compatible with me. My experience with a partner with considerably lower sex drive than mine is from my past. It is great you have never been frustrated so much because of significant sexual incompatibility with any of your partners. I hope that it will never happen to you. Good luck.
I think he means masturbation. Nothing wrong with it. I do it when my fiance isn't up to the task.
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Well, I see it now :) I guess my thought process continued in the lines of his advice "I am pretty sure you know how to turn him" that is why the confusion... Masturbation is fine and it reduces sexual frustration. Sure, it is good advice to do that when he is not in the mood for sex or whenever else. I am not sure how frequent your partner's behaviour and his lack of sexual interest are. If it was an occasional occurence, masturbation might be a sufficient solution. However, if his lack of sexual interest is a daily occurence, masturbation gives you a sexual release but may not help you to feel better in general because the bitterness stemming from his refusal is not likely to go away so easily.
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I won't go as far to say I'm as bad off as her. She needs a new partner. My fiance is a little bit of a workaholic and I get tired and go to sleep early, but if we can both do it, we do.
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I am glad you are better off than she is.
BTW, I think that she'd better find a new partner as well when she wants to be happy and sexually satisfied in the long run.