Is it normal that i want my wife to experience sex with another man

Let me begin by stating my wife and I love each other,agree to disagree like any couple, and have an ok sex life. I fantasize daily how my wife had sex prior to our marriage. We continuously talk about a 3 some and or her exploring sex with another guy.These conversations take our sex to another level. My wife likes the idea of my having happy ending massages and says that turns her on. But, I cannot seem to have her explore the same. Has anybody else experienced same and or similar? Am I a selfish person for wanting more?

Is It Normal?
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  • Trust me it's normal

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  • It's perfectly normal. Some couples can handle this sort of situation while others can't. I'm 36 and my wife 35, we've been together for 6 years now and have just started to talk about this. When I was younger there was no way I could handle it. Our sex life had gotten pretty boring until we started talking about it. Once she opened up it really helped, she admitted to fantasizing about past boyfriends that were bigger (I'm probably 5 inches at best) and better in bed and it really turned me on. I haven't been able to watch her yet but she did recently hook up with one of her exes. When she finally got home that night I wouldn't let her say a word about it until we were in bed and she was riding me. She told me all about how big he was and how he tore her clothes off her and pounded her. She admitted that she hadn't had sex that good in years and it turned me on incredibly. Eventually she had by far the biggest orgasm she'd ever had with me. I really want it to happen again.

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  • No, dude.. You're normal. I can never think of anybody touching my partner without getting homicidal.
    Some people just can't.

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  • You Don't want to see your wife have sex with another man.
    But theres nothing wrong in thinking about it.
    I have seen many married couples go down that road.
    It's a road to the familey law courts, and a whole lot of sadness, just keep the fantasy,

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