Is it normal that i want my wife to dominate me in bed?

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Is it normal I want my wife to completely control me in bed? I want her to use whips/paddles/blindfolds, spank/scratch me, order me to do things (and be really mean about it), and punish me if she sees fit. I want her to tease me and drive me crazy and then let me cum only when she allows it, and experiment with kinkier things too (anal stimulation, ball-gags, etc.) I also wish she'd be a little dominant outside the bedroom too (i.e. pull my hair and order me to do things around the house as a way of teasing me for what she'll do later). I want her to treat me like she owns me sexually. Is that normal? I am in my mid 20's and we've been married for a couple years. We have a great sex life... she likes to get a little dominant in bed, but I'd love it if she took it to a whole new level!

Am I normal?... and how do I slowly ease her into a much more dominant role?

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  • munchyman
    12 years ago | pl

    Yes you are normal and you should just tell her, maybe over a few drinks as it will be easier for you to say it and she might be more up for it there and then lol. Hope your urges are fulfilled!

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  • Demarcus
    7 years ago | pl

    So it's simple; you have 2 choices. One, suppress your want or desire and die miserable or two, try it. If you try it, think Goldilocks; it's too cold, it's too hot or it's just right.
    Don't get into your 40's and wished you had.

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  • yourfuckinghero
    12 years ago | pl

    Most women are more sub than dom, and you can't force it. If you communicate your needs and she's down, I see a wonderful relationship ahead of you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Do it.

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