Is it normal that i want my sister's daughter to have a disability

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and a name for it , like a diagnose ?

Is it normal that I have a daughter that has a disability ,she has general anxiety disorder , anyways subconiously i do want my sister's daughter to be disabled as well , so not to be the one with the disabled daugheter ,anways i always ask my sister about her daughter , because she has some issues , and i thought my daughter had a developmental disorder concerning social disability , yet it turned out that she has general anxiety disorder ,so i tell my sister that i don't think that my daughter has developmental disorder , what about you ? , i tell her my daughter can get around socially and function socially but she has general anxiety .

is it normal that i subconciously want my sister's daughter to have a developmental disorder , she does have issues with communication and being sociable but i want it to be a developmental disorder , so that i wont be the only one with a disabled daughter ?.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago | pl

    I'd say the only kind of issues your sister's daughter will encounter is having a horrible aunt. too bad they haven't come up with a cure yet for horrible-relatives-syndrome :-(

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    What's more important? The discomfiture of an adult (you) or the lifelong health of your niece? If you really think your niece being diagnosed with a disorder will make you happy, you need to take a long hard look at yourself.

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    I don't say this very often to people, but... You're a horrible human being. :(

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    God forgive you!!!

    Stay away from your niece! You are too evil to be in that child's company!
    I'd hate to have your karma coz when you point hatred at someone you have 3 times as many fingers pointing back at you!! TRY IT!

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  • Alexander_Louise_Armstrong
    12 years ago

    you,dont,need,to put a, after, every,

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  • Cherrybombpieee
    10 years ago

    Ur an evil bitch

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  • ibreathelectric
    10 years ago

    Ohmygoodness. You need to get some serious psychological help. Counseling is a great place to start. I'm thinking trauma counseling first because wishing hell upon your own sister and her daughter is probably one of the most perverted and foolish things I've ever heard. I can't believe you even had the brass ones to post this online. You realize this never goes away, right? Things online are forever. You realize that someone who could potentially know you could read this and know it's you immediately? Foolishness, that's all I can say. Just pure ignorant foolishness. God help your poor family.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    You sound like a bitch.

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  • Waterlily
    11 years ago

    I think it's a normal feeling - not good of course, but we all have this side.
    And when others have something better and we have not so good, we envy them and wish they would be in our situation, especially when it can't be changed.
    I hope you will overcome that.

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    I do not think you're evil. Maybe you have reason to fear your family members will use this issue to make you or your daughter feel bad? Probably for some reason we in IIN aren't privy to. You helped find out what your daughter needs, hopefully your sister wants to support you too. If you're worried she will have a competitive attitude, or a ' my daughter is better than yours vibe', I think it would be normal to feel and think the way you do. Its not like you're a voodoo queen or something, you wouldn't make her daughter have a disability. You have a right to your feelings. Don't worry too much about your honesty getting shot down.

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  • livnlrn93
    12 years ago

    Shame on you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    crazy talk

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    Second dappled.

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