Is it normal that i want my girlfriend to fuck me with a strap on?

I want to start off by saying I'm completely serious and I want serious answers in return. I'm not posting this as a joke or to screw with you guys. I'm being legit. Okay, I'm a straight male and I have a seriously strong urge/fantasy to be fucked by my girlfriend with a strap on. The thought of gay sex does nothing for me and it turns me off, but when I think about my baby taking advantage of me and fucking me, it really turns me on, like a lot! I want to suck the strap on and act like I'm sucking dick and I want to be penetrated in my ass and be submitted and get fucked instead of being the one doing the "fucking." Is this normal? Also, I've been a porn watcher almost since I could spell "porn" so maybe it's just a kinky thought or something like that. I don't know, that's why I'm here. All respectful and intelligent comments are appreciated. Thank you all. I really do appreciate the insight.

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  • haileye2

    Completely normal. As long as she's into it!

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    • lickloripp

      Bro I swear I'm the same I love when my girlfriend makes me suck the strap on then fucks my ass over and over ass to mouth I beg for it please take out of my ass shove in my mouth

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    • Ares420

      And what if shes not just supposed to never be satisfied.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    "Okay, I'm a straight male and I have a seriously strong urge/fantasy to be fucked by my girlfriend with a strap on. The thought of gay sex does nothing for me and it turns me off, but when I think about my baby taking advantage of me and fucking me, it really turns me on, like a lot!"

    It's only gay if it's another dude fucking you.
    Anyway, this is normal and more common than straight couples will actually admit. :)

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    • lickloripp

      Totally agree I had a girlfriend who was so cool

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  • Kelstu

    I did it to the wife one night. She loved it. She said it really hurt but then it stopped hurting. About a two weeks after penetrating her bum 5 to 7 times more. A package arrived. Address to me, she just played dumb. On opening my package I revelled a monster 12 inches of solid silicon strapon. I STARTED TO SHAKE. But I tell you all. When she grabs my hips and says I love you MY MAN. Slowly increasing force and speed. I can't help but to push back on it. I get that turned on. I say things. Like come on fuck that arse baby. "Not realising " I'm just out of control. It blows my brain apart. Sometimes it feels like I cum twice. It's so intense. Get into it men. It's not gay if your wife FUCKS you. She better come good tonight.

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    • lickloripp

      I would suck 1000 cocks if my baby didn't fuck me

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  • Meganm

    Nothing wrong with it. I have used a strap on on my boyfriend many times and I like it as much as he does or more.
    Whatever two people like to do as long as you both agree and you don't hurt anyone.
    Just like a woman making love to a woman, if you want to do it then go ahead. Do worry about
    Angels.

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    • Zubmcahan

      I am happy to hear that. After 25 straight years, I just asked my wife if she would use a dildo and a harness on me. A long-time fantasy of mine let me tell you. She gave no definite response. 2 months later we went on walk in the woods, and instead of bringing out regular picknick stuff, she took from the backpack a dildo and harness.she almost fucked my eyes out of their sockets, and for the first time ever she had not one but continous fountain orgasms. Sex has never been better, I do not care what the world may think. Traditional sex roles are straight jackets, just ditch that crap. Find love as it looks at you and yield to it. Perfectly normal my friends.

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  • jay22

    Listen,it happens more than you think, I'm strait married for 29 years, my wife introduced me to this 15 years ago, Let me tell you once you get past the weird point , it is one of the most sexual pleasure , I mean your orgasms are more intense , try it, your going to enjoy it ,

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  • Onelove69

    To some no it's not to others yes it is I have never wanted to have anything done to my butt i have always been into doing anal to girls but I had been with my girlfriend for 2 years and one night after my cousin's wedding I was really drunk and she had a few drinks and when we got home we started having sex she was giving me a bj and somehow her fingers touched my hole and I always freak out when she gets close but I didn't and next thing I knew a finger was in there then two then three it felt good the next day we talked about it and tried it again and it was even better than when I was drunk and about 3 months later we drove to a sex shop and looked around found a silver vibrator that she wanted and then I seen a nice rubber dick that I wanted to get but with the intention of it to be used on her by me and nothing else we got home later and couldn't wait to try them out she loved them then when we were finished I was just kinda sitting on her we were still naked like I was the chick riding her but I wasn't and she grabbed the rubber one and held it where a dick would be if she had one and started to smack my ass with it and said I want you to ride my dick I just said really and she grabbed the bottle of lube next to her put a few drops on that thing and it slid into me like a dream and felt so good we love and trust each other so much and we were both so relaxed and I'm a guy that can last but 4 minutes of riding her cock and not even touching my dick it was harder that it's ever been she was wetter than ever and I came so much and she loved it more than me and I loved it the next day after work I ran to the sex shop and picked up a strap on harness and couldn't wait to get it on her and let her fuck me all kinds of crazy and I reckon she felt the same way as me because when I got home she was in the bed with the same damn harness I had just gotten I love her and she loves me we have sex almost everyday and Everytime we have sex it goes both ways we now have big ones small ones and we've been together 13 years now and we just got one of them one that cums so she can cum inside me like I do to her and trust me it's not gay and her and I feel the same way about gay stuff it's about love trust sex and pleasure and keeping the sex life good we've been together 13 great years and we act like we just started dating when we first started dating butt stuff was a no it took a year to get my finger in there and a year in a half to put my dick in and it was like once a month type of thing and now I can put my dick in any hole whenever and she loves it and she can put her dicks in my hole whenever and we both love it she also got a threesome with me and another guy of her picking last year on her birthday cause she has always wanted to try it and she said that she would be ok if I wanted to feel the real thing once and I honestly did not want to I'm not turned on by guys in any way I told her that she kinda got a sad look on her face and she really wanted me to cause she thought it was so hot so since it was her birthday and I love her and yes the real thing actually feels so much better I don't know how to explain it it was better but worse I guess cause I'm not gay and not into guys but just the way it slides in and out and feeling his 10 inch cock and almost as big around as a soda can swell as he was cumming was amazing I swear he put as much cum in my ass as a big horse I think it was a combination of her getting really excited and I did always wonder what it was like to have someone cum in you for real after using our cumming dildos and I let the cum slowly leak out all night like she does which that part did turn me on my underwear were all soaked in the ass area along with my pants and a big wet spot on the bed and it was still leaking out until around lunch that day we had talked about after that and it now happens every now and then and it's actually better but I'm still not turned on by a man just like when we get a girl involved she will go down on a girl and and let a girl strap on her or strap on the girl it's more for me than her

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  • Loveontop

    It will be awesome trust me just let it happen ignore everyone and have fun

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  • mterrell

    I want my wife to fuck me with her strapon I use the dildo on her but am to shy to ask her to do it to me. How do I get het to just do it to me.

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    • Personafaq

      Dude my girlfriend just brought it up Ina game of would you rather and I found myself aroused. Most women are just like that too they want to do it but they won't say it. Just be explorative maybe don't start with the talk about strap ons but lead up to it instead and see what she thinks.

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  • magic7

    I was taken with a strap on in 1985 when it was quite taboo by my Amazon wife. She screwed me till I came then screwed me even longer and harder no allowing me off all fours. Strap on sex became a regular part of our femdom sessions including discipline. She enjoyed my submission to her fully!

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    • magic7

      We believe that whatever we did in the bedroom was no one else's business. My wife was very dominant and enjoyed taking me in this manner. She taught me the joys of anal sex and forced me to keep my hands away from my cock and just enjoy the feeling of the dildo sliding in and out of my ass.

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  • Gspyder

    Yes it's a pretty common kink. The role reversal is fun and it feels really good. Try it if you want

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  • selenavelez8

    My bf wants the same thing. Idk if its normal but your not the only one. I love control so I'm okay with it. I hope your gf is though.

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    • Analsex4life97

      I love giveing up some ass to girls bc most of them do love fucking guys up the ass

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    • Ares420

      U still with ur boyfriend if not u can control me

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      • Analsex4life97

        I've let some of my past girlfriends fuck me up the ass with a strapon and most of them like getting to fuck me up the ass with a strapon I do like big dildos strapons

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  • poon_jabber

    this is called pegging

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  • cupcake_wants

    just try a butt plug

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  • roho

    A lot of guys try this kind of thing. I haven't ever had a girl do me with a strap on, but I have had one rim me and finger me. Honestly, if she doesn't get too rough it feels pretty good.

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  • loopoo

    If my boyfriend asked me to do that I don't think he would be my boyfriend for much longer.

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    • Duane59

      I had a similar problem when I was married,
      But I only asked her to do it to me when we were up all night snorting cocaine. When I snort meth or cocaine, I immediately clean my bowels out, and insert a butt plug. Cocaine and Meth make me really enjoy playing with my ass. I discovered this when I was in my late teens, I am now 57 and still enjoy it. I have never considered myself gay, but I like watching gay and shemale porn If I was to ever have gay sex, I know I would have to be loaded on cocaine or meth, but don't think I would like kissing a guy. HMMM, not sure, because I still love looking at women and fucking them, but I don't think that when I see good looking guys, unless of course I'm loaded on coke/meth.

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    • jay22

      Can I ask why?

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      • loopoo

        Anything anal just does not appeal to me. I believe things should only come out, not go in.

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  • JayPr'zBaddest

    Well maybe you should try fucking yourself with the strap on because you might now really like the whole thing.. It may be a fantasy or you could really like it.. First you have to figure out how to tell you girlfriend though because she might think thats kinda creepy lol

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Normal for a homo in denial

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    • Murun

      Err.. Wouldn't that be wanting a man to do it?

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  • Ayesh1996

    I wanted to try that but i was very nervous. My gf said it’s okay and she licked my ass and gently put it in me. It was fun.

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  • Gabe091

    I could really use some dick in my fat ass booty right now.

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  • Gabe091

    I loved it when my ex did it to me! She would pull my thong to the side and eat my ass first then slowly slide the strap on in my ass. I felt so good i would throw my ass back on it and she would moan and tell me “take this dick my little bitch”. I still wear thongs to this day because of her.

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    • Crosshhhy

      Heyy where you located at

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  • kitkatbar

    Try some other DOM stuff with her first, and maybe a finger, then go from there. There is nothing really that isn't normal in the bedroom I think.

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  • fullhouse

    I don't know. I am into dominating so I don't think I'd ask my submissive partner to do it to me. It'd turn me off. But it's perfectly normal n you shouldn't care abt others op. If ur gf is fine with, then go ahead n have fun

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