Is it normal that i want my first sexual experience to be poetic?

I am a 19 year old virgin, and I have this "idea" about sex the first time.
I want it to be with someone who sees rain on my skin, and wants to drink it off.
Someone who undresses me gently by candlelight, and understands that the shadows on the wall are a part of me.
Someone who will caress me and smell my hair.
... Am I delusional?

Is It Normal?
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  • I will drink the rain off your nose...curl your toes...make you scream out during O's.....

    Our bodies will become one like an eclipse of the moon and the sun....

    my waves will lap your shores...open your doors...succumb to your lures...

    let me drink the sweet fragrance of your love until we are both satisfied and content to lay in each others arms forever like the passionate kiss of Burt Lancaster and Deborah Kerr in From Here to Eternity .... as the waves crash over us

    Let us frolic and gambole about and delight in each other like young fawns playing in the fields on a beautiful spring morn...

    my heart will beat to the sound of your love...

    is that poetic enough?

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    • dude that even turned me on a little lol

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    • I do not want to spoil your enjoyment but I have a strange feeling that the OP is a male (my feeling is based on another post of this kind which was written by a 19 year old male) but I might be completely wrong. In that case I apologise in advance.

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      • Female (:

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  • That is what your first experience SHOULD be like.

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  • It's funny how enjoying to be abused and humiliated is more normal than this, in this society.

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  • That was actually rather beautiful. I don't hold out a lot of hope for your first time being like that, but I really do wish it ends up that way. You have a poet inside you and it deserves to be indulged.

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    • Thank you (: that's very sweet... I've been holding out, looking for a person who will treat me this way. But, I'm starting to lose hope myself.

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      • Value yourself enough to save it for marriage for a man who really loves you and you'll be glad you did. Girls just give it away and don't know how valuable they are.

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      • Ahh, I know. :/ There really isn't is enough of this kind of romance around. Out of practicality, I gave up on it myself.

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  • it may be normal for a girl but chances are it just aint gonna happen lol. unless of course ur mate is also a virgin then he may want to take it slow as well. but between his penis not fitting and the blood everywhere you'll more than likely enjoy sex more the second time rather than the first

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  • Perfectly normal.

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  • Sounds reasonable. When you have a boyfriend that you love enough to want to sleep with just let him know you want your first time to be special. It shouldn't be too hard to put in the effort of a candle or two, maybe some music and going slowly :)

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  • If you are a guy (I guess you might be on the basis of another post by a 19 year old male posted recently), you should be aware that most young girls - especially virgins expect their male partner to make the magic happen for them. It may not be good news for you but you are the one who is usually supposed to arrange "the atmosphere" so that the first time would fulfill the dreams you have about it. Even girls who are into romance and like reading romance novels etc. expect the guy to take the lead and romantically seduce them. More experienced girls usually prefer more "manly" men with more masculine behavior. I'm not saying if this is right or wrong but it probably corresponds with reality.
    I don't want to disappoint you but your expectations don't seem very realistic to me. Moreover, such situations are not likely to miraculously happen but there usually must be someone who will "help" that happen.

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  • I love poetry, fiction and other forms of art.
    But I try to keep my ability to distinguish between fiction and reality.
    So my answer is that your expectations are quite unrealistic. You see, some people get unrealistic expectations from watching porn, others from romantic movies / books etc.
    Nothing wrong with poetry or romance, nothing wrong with porn but expectations based on them may be the first step to disappointment when we base our expectations on fiction or wishful thinking.
    However, if you learn how to protect yourself from disappointment or bitterness when it is different in reality, then it is OK for you to live in fantasy and enjoy it.

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  • You're NOT delusional.
    I think that's quite sweet.
    I hope it works out for you when that time comes.

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  • My first time was lovely.
    There were no candles or waves it was me, him and the love we share.
    It hurt for like 2 min but after that it was so romantic. He told me how beautiful i looked and was so genital. He made sure that it was what i wanted and not what he wanted. He made sure that i was comfy and that i got all the pleasure i wanted. He told me that he loved me and with the music in the background, it felt so romantic. I told him how much he meant to me and he told me how he felt about me. I can't believe how lucky i was to have found him.
    I wanted my first time to be some sort of love story but this was so much better.
    I hope that your first time is as lovely as mine was and it makes you feel good about yourself. Everyone deserves a good first time.

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  • Don't get your hopes up that your first time will be magical and amazing. It is not like you see in the films, at all.
    But it's nice you think that.

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  • Rhyming during sex is difficult I would go for something easier like Spoken Word.

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    • Generally, I don't rhyme when I wrote poetry.

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  • It's normal but unlikely, just get it done so you can get good at it - like me :-)

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  • I hoped my first time would be like that too. Unfortunately I was in pain four days afterward. Poor maid at the Holiday Inn.

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    • Aw :( I'm sorry

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