It's cool that you worry about her, and keeping the baby is definitely going to put a strain on her, you, her bf, and his family, but abortion is not really an option either, especially if you tell her to do it after she has already made the decision. If she came to the decision that is one thing - although I don't agree, but that is a whole other issue - but since she said she wanted to keep it, she will eventually feel guilty and think you talked her into it - which would be true - and be resentful to you - which you don't want. Adoption is probably the best option, unless you and her bf family are truly willing to help out.
Is it normal that i want my daughter to abort her baby
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It's cool that you worry about her, and keeping the baby is definitely going to put a strain on her, you, her bf, and his family, but abortion is not really an option either, especially if you tell her to do it after she has already made the decision. If she came to the decision that is one thing - although I don't agree, but that is a whole other issue - but since she said she wanted to keep it, she will eventually feel guilty and think you talked her into it - which would be true - and be resentful to you - which you don't want. Adoption is probably the best option, unless you and her bf family are truly willing to help out.