Don't mean to sound like a dick but deal with it, accept him for who he is, how would you feel if for example he walked in one day and said you should loose some weight? You wouldn't like it right?
Yeah, we are visual creatures and and especially at first attraction is a big deal and I get it, you have a preference as we all do but if he was fit enough for you to get with him in the first place you shouldn't try to change him now you're together, the fact that he gets defensive over it shows how he feels about this
Is it normal that I want my boyfriend to be buff?
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Don't mean to sound like a dick but deal with it, accept him for who he is, how would you feel if for example he walked in one day and said you should loose some weight? You wouldn't like it right?
Yeah, we are visual creatures and and especially at first attraction is a big deal and I get it, you have a preference as we all do but if he was fit enough for you to get with him in the first place you shouldn't try to change him now you're together, the fact that he gets defensive over it shows how he feels about this