Yeah it's normal, try and wait longer before getting together to see if the liking wears off. Also try and get to know them really well before starting anything, again to check whether you are only liking the fact that they are a new exciting person to try and get with.
When you start to get bored try to think of all the things you used to like about them and make it a challenge to get yourself to like them again.
Maybe you should take a break from relationships for a while, or try open relationships. This can be fun because it's even harder to get with someone when you aren't offering them any commitment, and it also prepares guys for the fact you might ditch them fairly easily.
But try really hard not to be a jerk to these guys because it is not their fault you've got bored of them, this pattern shows it's you, not something they are doing.
Is it normal that i want him.. but when i have him.. bleh.
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Yeah it's normal, try and wait longer before getting together to see if the liking wears off. Also try and get to know them really well before starting anything, again to check whether you are only liking the fact that they are a new exciting person to try and get with.
When you start to get bored try to think of all the things you used to like about them and make it a challenge to get yourself to like them again.
Maybe you should take a break from relationships for a while, or try open relationships. This can be fun because it's even harder to get with someone when you aren't offering them any commitment, and it also prepares guys for the fact you might ditch them fairly easily.
But try really hard not to be a jerk to these guys because it is not their fault you've got bored of them, this pattern shows it's you, not something they are doing.