"I like you for personality, but your afro hair is not what I find attractive". Doesn't sound appealing to me. I think I'm just different, I think I'm happy with what I have, and I need someone who is happy with that too. Not someone who's sees past, tolerates or pretends it doesn't matter. Surely if its my identity, it forms part of my personality, even if just a little bit.
Is it normal that I want guys I date to be attracted to all of me?
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"I like you for personality, but your afro hair is not what I find attractive". Doesn't sound appealing to me. I think I'm just different, I think I'm happy with what I have, and I need someone who is happy with that too. Not someone who's sees past, tolerates or pretends it doesn't matter. Surely if its my identity, it forms part of my personality, even if just a little bit.