Thanks for commenting, if I particular person from a race has an interest in me, I don't assume that their whole race needs to find me attractive, nor would I try to make their WHOLE race find me attractive, that would just be silly. My racial preference wasn't part of the question I was only trying to emphasise the fact that while I don't have a racial preference, some people do. In response to your second point, I fully agree that it is important that you find someone you will love you even if you become fat, but I don't agree with attraction coming second to love, I'm not sure if your are male or female, but I doubt most guys could only focus on the inside, and disregard the outside, however you might be one of the few. Speaking from my own experience, you can really care for someone who's personality you like, but its not love, and the attraction doesn't grow over time. (IMO)
Is it normal that I want guys I date to be attracted to all of me?
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Thanks for commenting, if I particular person from a race has an interest in me, I don't assume that their whole race needs to find me attractive, nor would I try to make their WHOLE race find me attractive, that would just be silly. My racial preference wasn't part of the question I was only trying to emphasise the fact that while I don't have a racial preference, some people do. In response to your second point, I fully agree that it is important that you find someone you will love you even if you become fat, but I don't agree with attraction coming second to love, I'm not sure if your are male or female, but I doubt most guys could only focus on the inside, and disregard the outside, however you might be one of the few. Speaking from my own experience, you can really care for someone who's personality you like, but its not love, and the attraction doesn't grow over time. (IMO)