I think that just because someone is not attracted to you from a particular race, it doesn't mean that you are obligated to make that race like you. There are plenty of women that only focus on one person only.
"""I like almost all races and if there is a race I don't particularly find attractive, I believe it's just because I haven't found that guy(s)that does IT for me."
What do you mean by that? It seems that you need to find someone you are attracted with their personality, and then their appearance. Find someone that will love you no matter if your fat, but don't find someone who will love you just because you're lean and curvy, but wouldn't love you when you were fat. Find someone who is attracted to you for your personality, and they're probably attracted to your appearance after getting to know you.
Thanks for commenting, if I particular person from a race has an interest in me, I don't assume that their whole race needs to find me attractive, nor would I try to make their WHOLE race find me attractive, that would just be silly. My racial preference wasn't part of the question I was only trying to emphasise the fact that while I don't have a racial preference, some people do. In response to your second point, I fully agree that it is important that you find someone you will love you even if you become fat, but I don't agree with attraction coming second to love, I'm not sure if your are male or female, but I doubt most guys could only focus on the inside, and disregard the outside, however you might be one of the few. Speaking from my own experience, you can really care for someone who's personality you like, but its not love, and the attraction doesn't grow over time. (IMO)
Is it normal that I want guys I date to be attracted to all of me?
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I think that just because someone is not attracted to you from a particular race, it doesn't mean that you are obligated to make that race like you. There are plenty of women that only focus on one person only.
"""I like almost all races and if there is a race I don't particularly find attractive, I believe it's just because I haven't found that guy(s)that does IT for me."
What do you mean by that? It seems that you need to find someone you are attracted with their personality, and then their appearance. Find someone that will love you no matter if your fat, but don't find someone who will love you just because you're lean and curvy, but wouldn't love you when you were fat. Find someone who is attracted to you for your personality, and they're probably attracted to your appearance after getting to know you.
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Thanks for commenting, if I particular person from a race has an interest in me, I don't assume that their whole race needs to find me attractive, nor would I try to make their WHOLE race find me attractive, that would just be silly. My racial preference wasn't part of the question I was only trying to emphasise the fact that while I don't have a racial preference, some people do. In response to your second point, I fully agree that it is important that you find someone you will love you even if you become fat, but I don't agree with attraction coming second to love, I'm not sure if your are male or female, but I doubt most guys could only focus on the inside, and disregard the outside, however you might be one of the few. Speaking from my own experience, you can really care for someone who's personality you like, but its not love, and the attraction doesn't grow over time. (IMO)