Few people have a sexuality that fits very neatly in a single box (i.e. sex with a specific type of person, of a specific gender, a specific number of times a week, and always in the same position and under the same conditions).
People are scared to admit it but we like different things. I can't see why we all make such a big deal out of something which is ostensibly so simple as sexual contact. Would I let a man have anal sex with me? If I was in the mood for it, sure, why not? What rules am I breaking? None. It doesn't make me a bad person. The fact that I've never had sexual contact with a man is because it's rarely what I'd want as opposed to any kind of moral stance.
I understand why you're worried but, honestly, try not to. Sex is simple. It's just two or more people doing something that brings pleasure. Hang ups only hinder you in experiencing what you want.
Also, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there that would be turned on by watching another man penetrate their boyfriend. The world is your oyster.
I agree with you dappled. I quit trying to name my sexuality because like you said, no one can fit neatly in a box. I very rarely meet anyone who is entirely straight. Don't pressure yourself to fit into a box or label. Do what you like and what feels comfortable to you.
is it normal that i want anal sex but im still attracted to women?
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Few people have a sexuality that fits very neatly in a single box (i.e. sex with a specific type of person, of a specific gender, a specific number of times a week, and always in the same position and under the same conditions).
People are scared to admit it but we like different things. I can't see why we all make such a big deal out of something which is ostensibly so simple as sexual contact. Would I let a man have anal sex with me? If I was in the mood for it, sure, why not? What rules am I breaking? None. It doesn't make me a bad person. The fact that I've never had sexual contact with a man is because it's rarely what I'd want as opposed to any kind of moral stance.
I understand why you're worried but, honestly, try not to. Sex is simple. It's just two or more people doing something that brings pleasure. Hang ups only hinder you in experiencing what you want.
Also, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there that would be turned on by watching another man penetrate their boyfriend. The world is your oyster.
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I agree with you dappled. I quit trying to name my sexuality because like you said, no one can fit neatly in a box. I very rarely meet anyone who is entirely straight. Don't pressure yourself to fit into a box or label. Do what you like and what feels comfortable to you.