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I like and want anal sex from a male yet im still very attracted to women and like to have sex with them. Something about anal sex being "forcefully" given to me turns me on. Im very confused on the reason for this and what this means. help me out?
Few people have a sexuality that fits very neatly in a single box (i.e. sex with a specific type of person, of a specific gender, a specific number of times a week, and always in the same position and under the same conditions).
People are scared to admit it but we like different things. I can't see why we all make such a big deal out of something which is ostensibly so simple as sexual contact. Would I let a man have anal sex with me? If I was in the mood for it, sure, why not? What rules am I breaking? None. It doesn't make me a bad person. The fact that I've never had sexual contact with a man is because it's rarely what I'd want as opposed to any kind of moral stance.
I understand why you're worried but, honestly, try not to. Sex is simple. It's just two or more people doing something that brings pleasure. Hang ups only hinder you in experiencing what you want.
Also, I'm sure there are plenty of women out there that would be turned on by watching another man penetrate their boyfriend. The world is your oyster.
I agree with you dappled. I quit trying to name my sexuality because like you said, no one can fit neatly in a box. I very rarely meet anyone who is entirely straight. Don't pressure yourself to fit into a box or label. Do what you like and what feels comfortable to you.
I'm a pro dominatrix and I'd have to say that a lot of the men I have dealt with want to be pegged. forcibly violated by a dildo/strap on or a man, whether or not they consider themselves straight or bi sexual, or even bi curious, it is very normal.
normal u can't say i am bi if u like that u have to like men to say i am bi , u r straight
u wanna try it , try it
perfectly normal. You may be bi, bi-curious, pansexual... you may have a rape fantasy or perhaps a kink. Heaps of women are willing to do that sort of thing (google pegging) and i personally know a whole bunch of women willing to have threesomes with their boyfriend and another guy :)
Not that I agree with the sort of thing, but you could always find a woman that doesn't mind sticking a finger or two up there, or something bigger. Or, you could always try gay sex once. I don't want to advocate any of this, personally I would just forget about it since you are still attracted to woman, just because I want to screw my neighbour sometimes doesn't mean I have to.