Is it normal that i want an attractive boyfriend with a good personality?

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I want a boyfriend, but he has to be attractive! Not only attractive, but he has to have a unique personality too! Is this normal?

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  • Kittenfever
    5 years ago | pl

    What?!?! You are insane! This is completely crazy! Naturally, I want an ugly guy with a terrible personality, just like everyone else! You freak.

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    • lonewolf1253
      5 years ago | pl

      Then you need to hook up with a buddy of mine. He's got a face only a mother could love and cares only about himself. He's what you need and want. Send me a private message with your address and I'll send him right over. He'll travel. No-one in this state can even look at him without getting sick.

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      • Kittenfever
        5 years ago | pl

        Did you detect my sarcasm? And are you referring to yourself?

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        • lonewolf1253
          5 years ago | pl

          I was responding to your sarcasm with some of my own. Myself? I'm absolutely adorable. 6'2" about 195 lbs and on top of all that, I'm an expert in the fine art of cunnilingus. A dream come true for any woman.

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  • _Mehhhh_
    5 years ago | pl

    Depends how high your standards are.

    I think it's normal to want a partner who takes care of their looks and stays healthy. There's plenty of normal people who do that and they look nice and dateable.

    But then if you want a 10/10 model type, you'd better be on that level yourself.

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  • Pink-pumpkin
    5 years ago | pl

    Who wants an ugly and shitty person?

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Everyone wants to be with someone who's attractive and has a good personality! I don't think I've ever heard anyone say, "damn, I gotta find me an ugly asshole to be with",

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago | pl

      And yet so many women are with ugly assholes.

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      • lonewolf1253
        5 years ago | pl

        And most of those women are ugly assholes. It works both ways. I usually see pretty girls with handsome men and ugly girls with ugly men. There are exceptions, but from what I've seen, it's very rare to see a pretty girl with an ugly guy. I see more handsome men with ugly women.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago | pl

        HA!

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  • McBean
    5 years ago | pl

    You are talking about the top 2% of men. To keep women happy, these elite guys have sex with a different woman every night. You will have to take a number and get in line.

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  • Data
    5 years ago | pl

    Obviously normal, but sometimes a good personality can make almost anyone attractive. Least, that's how it seems to me. I've seen some otherwise good-looking guys who are horrible people, so their appearance becomes horrible as well.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago | pl

    I mean, no one wants someone ugly with a bad personality. I have trouble understanding why anyone would vote no.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago | pl

    I honestly just wanted to see if this would be labeled 100% normal and i am honestly shocked that is not

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  • Jonniebonnire
    5 years ago | pl

    Of course this is normal, 100%

    Why would you ever think this is normal or not??

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  • amg1028
    5 years ago | pl

    sadly it is, everyone has a set of standards

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  • lonewolf1253
    5 years ago | pl

    A lot depends on your looks and your personality. Most guys want a pretty girl with a sweet personality. is that you? If not, you may have to find some middle ground. We can't always get what we want. We get what we need.
    Hey, that would make a good song lyric.

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    • Jonniebonnire
      5 years ago | pl

      Nah, i dont think thats a good song lyric.

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      • lonewolf1253
        5 years ago | pl

        I saw her today at the reception
        A glass of wine in her hand
        I knew she was gonna meet her connection
        At her feet was a footloose man
        You can't always get what you want
        You can't always get what you want
        You can't always get what you want
        But if you try sometimes, yeah
        You might find you get what you need!
        An' I went down to the demonstration
        To get my fair share of abuse
        Singing: We're gonna vent our frustration
        If we don't we're gonna blow a fifty amp fuse
        (Sing this song)
        You can't always get what you want
        You can't always get what you want
        You can't always get what you want
        But if you try sometimes
        You just might find you get what you need!
        (Oh! Babe, Yeah!)

        It's an old rolling stones song. This is just part of the lyrics. I was never a big stones fan but I thought I'd make a pun. I guess you never heard the song.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    Unless you become too demanding on the way, it sounds like a great place to start to me.

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  • rayb12
    5 years ago | pl

    I'm both of these things. But I'm turned off by how you say these are things you need. I would feel like you are still doing this dance in your own head rather than really experiencing me.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      Okay, well basically I want a good looking boyfriend but if I don't like his personality then that makes him less attractive looking to me for some reason.

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      • bob7
        5 years ago | pl

        the opposite can be true , when u find someone's personality really good , you will overlook some of their bad physical features

        that's why u find the closest people to u relatively good looking

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      • rayb12
        5 years ago | pl

        yeah that is common

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  • rayb12
    5 years ago | pl

    Are you the same? It really is better if you like someone for who they are rather than how they measure up to your preconceived ideas of what they should be. Experiencing someone else is kind of the whole point of having a romantic relationship

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  • bubsy
    5 years ago | pl

    In other words, you want a high-value man.

    If you want to get pumped and dumped by one, you don't have to do too much at all. But if you actually want commitment and a relationship, then you better start improving yourself.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago | pl

    Start hanging out in gay bars. Lots of guys there who are obsessed with their appearance and coming across as witty and unique.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    WTF!?! FREAK!

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