Is it normal that i want a threesome with my wife and her friend?

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My wife and I sometimes talk dirty during sex. One of the topic that came up was a threesome with another girl. I always just dismissed the idea so she does not think that i am a dog. Besides how do I know she is not just testing me? Now when we have sex, I always fantasize that her close friend is there with us. Should I bring this up to her? I want to see her eating out her friend and vice versa while I do them from behind. Even if I just do my wife while I watch her eat out her friend would be ok too. I don't need people telling me that it could ruin our marriage, trust issues and blah blah blah. I want to know how fun it would be!

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  • Caledonia
    11 years ago

    Just talk to her and find out how she really feels about it. I've been with my boyfriend for years and I brought up the subject of a threesome with another girl, as it was one of my fantasies. So glad I did! You never know, you might get lucky.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago

      Good point.

      Some men may shy away from asking for an FFM threesome cos they may be afraid of the wife's reaction, thinking that the hubby wants the wife and the "friend" both pleasuring him.

      BUT it's not always that - or not *only* that.

      The husband and wife can also pleasure the friend. And the friend and husband can pleasure the wife.

      Or in a nutshell... the pairing could end up being very bisexual with everyone enjoying each other etc.

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      • snafu
        11 years ago

        what a great political way of putting it. you make it sound wrong for one not willing to try it, well done

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        • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
          11 years ago

          well no, there's no "wrong" if the partner doesn't want to try it.

          There's misconceptions about what may happen in an FFM or MMF however though.

          But, ultimately the final choice is between the main couple on whether or not they chose to bring a friend into the bedroom.

          above all else - communicate

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    what happens if it goes wrong?

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Well I have had a foursome with one guy and two girls which was pretty awesome.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Threesomes are fucking amazing, it's a completely different experience than just getting with one person.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    Congratulations, you are a man.

    We all want that, whether or not we admit it, no strait man would not like to have a threesome!

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  • wifesasslicker
    9 years ago

    i want to see my wife being licked by her friend when she blows me

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    you should try ^_^ it's very interesting. if you really feel like it, try adding a third guy. It may be just around here, but 3 seems to be a magic number where they can recover in cycles...

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    " Besides how do I know she is not just testing me?"

    Does she normally test you or play games like that?

    I'd suggest - communication.
    and you can start by asking her what HER fantasies are in bed too. maybe it's the same as yours?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    The safest approach is saying you want to watch her get with her friend and then take it from there. If you start the conversation with "I want to fuck your closest friend" I admire your balls.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Hawt.

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  • Rin✿
    11 years ago

    In my opinion doing that with a friend of mine would be gross. I would leave out the friend part at first if that's really what you want to do. I didn't think best (girl) friends were that close.

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