Allow me to explain. My birthfather hasn't been in my life for many years. My mother divorced him back when I was 4. He's a terrible man. He abused my mother nearly killing her multiple times, stole my mom's money, tried harming my younger twin brother back when we were babies, and while I was never mistreated growing up, he hasn't done one thing for me or my brothers. As far as I'm concerned, he never was, isn't, and never will be my real father. I'll always feel this way towards him. I believe that you're not a parent just because you happen to impregnate a woman or deliver a baby. It takes much more than either of those things to be a true parent.
Is it normal that I want a new father?
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Allow me to explain. My birthfather hasn't been in my life for many years. My mother divorced him back when I was 4. He's a terrible man. He abused my mother nearly killing her multiple times, stole my mom's money, tried harming my younger twin brother back when we were babies, and while I was never mistreated growing up, he hasn't done one thing for me or my brothers. As far as I'm concerned, he never was, isn't, and never will be my real father. I'll always feel this way towards him. I believe that you're not a parent just because you happen to impregnate a woman or deliver a baby. It takes much more than either of those things to be a true parent.